365 Days of Purpose

Goodbye

2010-01-10T22:03:00.000-08:00

I will no longer continue to post on this blog for various reasons. However, the spiritual, physical, and charitiable work will continue. I encourage all of you to do the best you can in 2010!

Thanks to all the bloggers that have been so supportive and generous. I really enjoyed your company......online!

God bless you and your families. Good night.

Day 9: Emotional Challenges

2010-01-09T19:27:00.001-08:00

Some days start on a sweet note and end up on a sour one. Tonight's reason for things going downhill, is of my own doing. I get so caught up in doing things "just right" that I forget about what really matters.

My husband bought tickets to a concert and instead of making him feel like I was thrilled about it, I brought up the "money issue." It wasn't that much money, but I was being a "budget nerd" and ruined his moment in the sun. The reality of it is, he would've never done that to me, but I did it to him, and hence hurt him. I am not feeling like the good and supportive wife right now.

So, with a sullen heart, I am still going to make my entry of the day, on my food intake and exercise, which at the moment does not feel that significant.......but here it is.

Breakfast: Creamy Oatmeal

Lunch: Spinach salad with tomatoes, bell peppers, and cubed turkey. I used 2 tbsps. of Italian Vinaigrette to top it off.

Dinner: Turkey burgers with steamed endamame beans and side of salad.
This turkey burger recipe from Real Simple Magazine is so tender and juicy. Must give it a try. We as a family prefer turkey burgers over beef these days. They are healthier and tastier and juicier.

3/4 lbs. of ground turkey
1 medium zucchini, grated
1 medium carrot, grated
2 cloves garlic, finely chopped
3/4 tsp. dried thyme
3/4 tsp. kosher salt
1/4 tsp. black pepper
1 large egg
3 tbsps. olive oil

In a large bowl, combine the turkey, zucchini, carrot, garlic, thyme, salt, pepper, and egg. Form the mixture into 4 patties. Heat 1 tablespoon of the oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Cook the patties, turning once, until no trace of pink remains, about 5 minutes per side.

Exercise: 60 jumping jacks
Have not done those since grade school and let me tell you its not as easy anymore. I had to stop and do two sets of 30.

Good night dear friends!

Day 8:

2010-01-08T17:50:00.000-08:00

Wednesdays and Fridays are also fasting days in the Eastern Orthodox Faith. Wednesday was the day that the council gathered to betray Christ and Friday was the day that Christ suffered death for our salvation. I need to educate myself more on the actual fasting from my Spiritual Father. I did the best I knew how for today.

Breakfast

Lunch
Snack
Dinner

I have been reading and listening to the importance of GIVING with a happy heart. It's not how much you give, but rather how willing and joyful you are at the time of your giving.

It prompted me to research a charity online called, Blessings In A Backpack. Please take a second to click on link and view their mission. I noticed that only 1 school in all of Colorado has been sponsored and that needs to change. I am certain there are a ton of schools with impoverished families that can use a little extra help with eating for the day.

My church has a group of kind hearted and committed women called the Philoptochos. They gather once a month speaking about and putting into action fundraisers to aid the needy. From battered wives' shelters to orphanages to nursing homes. The list is endless. I joined forces with them years ago, when I was a mother of one child. I showed up religiously and was a part of most events.

The following year, I only showed up to 3 meetings and this past year NONE! I can use the excuse that I was busy or that I have three kids now, but so do the other members. The truth is I lost my incentive.

The first meeting of the year is Tuesday, and I intend on showing up and bringing up Blessings in a Backpack to them. I am going to use all my resources this year, to make THINGS happen. One cannot bring about change by simply thinking about it.

I love the following passage from James 2:14-16:
Of what benefit is it, my brothers, if a certain one says he has faith but he does not have works? That faith cannot save him, can it? If a brother or a sister is in a naked state and lacking the food sufficient for the day, yet certain one of YOU says to them: "Go in peace, keep warm and well fed," but YOU do not give them the necessities for (their) body, of what benefit is it?

I also ran into old but familiar faces today as well. It gave me hope of building on friendships this year that will enrich my life. Have you ever had an acquaintance that is always welcoming and generous, but never made the effort to get together? Why do we do that?

I feel myself more open this year to God's intention for me. It feels easier than expected and more rewarding.

Good night friends!

Day 7: Weighing In

2010-01-07T19:50:00.000-08:00

I am One Year into growing my hair for Locks of Love. After my husband trimming my hair this morning, I realized it would take two more years to make a proper donation. The hair needs to be at least 10 inches long from one tip of the ponytail to the next. Virgin hair is most preferable, but permed or colored hair is acceptable. No highlighted hair.

January 22, 2009

August 12, 2009

January 7, 2010

This morning was another moment of truth......I weighed in for the first time since my January 1st entry.......The scale was not looking so black and white anymore. I lost close to 4 lbs. Yeah, for progress. Mostly water weight, I am certain, but at least its heading down. The best part of the entire progress thus far is, I am already feeling stronger and not as easily out of breath.

P.S. I need a pedicure!

I only had a cup of coffee for breakfast this morning, because I was in a rush to get to my hair appointment. They only come along once a year. I'm married to the hairdresser, what can I say? I am the last one to get some TLC for my hair.

For lunch, I ate another bowl of the yummy hot & sour 10 vegetable soup from yesterday. I love having leftovers and not needing to cook ALL the time.

I also snacked one 1 small piece of dark chocolate and a serving of tortilla chips with tomato salsa. I really had a craving for both. I feel it's important to address our cravings instead or suppressing them. If we address them in moderation, it keeps us "on the wagon" instead of pushing us "off the wagon."

Dinner: Shrimp scampi over fettuccine. My own last minute throw down. A little bit of butter, some garlic, lemon juice, shrimp, and parsley. I should have kept track of the amounts of each, but I was in a rush. Babysitting another child today, and so I did not have the luxury.

No time to work out either, but as soon as I get off the blog tonight, I will at least go do 25 sit ups. I am unable to call it a day, unless I have attempted an exercise. Movement. Any kind, as long as its within your means.

Have a good night sweet friends and remember the journey to good living has just begun.

Day 6: Snow & Soup

2010-01-06T20:00:00.001-08:00

Today, was a cold and snowy day in Colorado.
Temperatures ranging between 4-10 degrees Fahrenheit. On days like today, it puts me in the mood for lots of................

...................................soup!

But first, I had breakfast. A cup of my Chai,
one egg (sunny side up), and an orange.

Lunch: My husband's chicken with homemade noodles soup.

After lunch, I needed to quickly bake a batch of OVER SIZED chocolate chip cookies, to mail to my Aunt Mary for her birthday on Sunday. Of course, I had to have one of those bad boys. The only comfort I had, was knowing they were made for someone else and I could not indulge in more than ONE! Plus, I am weighing in for the first time in A WEEK tomorrow, and since it's on my blog,
I need to "watch it." After diving into the first dessert this week, 1 cookie was surprisingly enough.

Cured my sweet tooth and on we go...........

Dinner: 10 Vegetable Vegetarian Hot-and-Sour Soup from one of my favorite Chinese cookbooks, called Susanna Foo Fresh Inspiration. This soup has it all. Spicy, a tad sour, earthy, and just a mouthful of fresh vegetables. After eating one bowl of this soup, I was full and very pleased.

Here's the recipe:

4 oz firm tofu
3 tbsps. soy sauce
3 tbsps. of rice wine vinegar
2 tsps. kosher salt
1 1/2-2 tsps. freshly ground white pepper
2 tsps. of cornstarch, mixed with 1/4 cup of water
8 cups of Vegetable Stock
2 tbsps. corn oil
1/4 cup thinly sliced shallots
2 jalapeno peppers, stemmed and chopped
1/2 cup diced (1/4 inch) peeled celery root
1/2 cup diced (1/4 inch) peeled parsnips
1/2 cup diced (1/4 inch) peeled carrots
10-12 dried shiitake mushrooms, soaked in warm water for 20 mins., drained, stemmed, and diced
1/2 cup diced (1/4 inch) Yukon Gold potatoes
1/2 cup diced (1/4 inch) zucchini
1/2 diced (1/4 inch) tomatoes
1/2 cup chopped scallions
1 tsp. sesame oil
2 tbsps. finely chopped fresh cilantro

Rinse the tofu under cold water, then place on several layers of paper towels to drain for 10 minutes. With a sharp knife, cut the tofu into 1/2 inch dice.

Combine the soy sauce, vinegar, salt, white pepper, and cornstarch mixture in a large bowl and mix well. Stir in the stock.

Heat the oil in a large stockpot over high heat. Add the shallots and jalapeno peppers and cook, stirring, until the shallots are soft, 1-2 minutes. Add the celery root, parsnips, carrots, shiitakes, and potatoes, stir, and cook for 2 minutes to sear and coat the vegetables. Add the stock mixture and bring to a boil. Turn the heat to low and simmer uncovered, for 20 minutes, or just until the vegetables are soft.

Add the tofu and zucchini and simmer for another 10 minutes, or until the zucchini is soft. Add the tomatoes and scallions, stir, and cook for 1 minute.

Ladle the soup into bowls, drizzle with the sesame oil, sprinkle with the cilantro, and serve.

After dinner, I dropped my son off at his Destination Imagination meeting, while I ran over to the gym for that hour and worked out on the bicycle. 30 minutes, 10.76 miles, and burned 150 calories......that's probably 1/2 the calories of those enormous cookies.

I will be weighing in tomorrow, so please join me to see the results. Have I done enough for the first week? Do I need to push harder next week? What difference have the first 7 days made?

I would also love to hear from anyone else out there that is trying to improve their life from the outside and in. What are some of your triumphs, tricks, or goals?

Good night sweet friends and see you tomorrow!

Day 5: Day of Fasting

2010-01-05T14:38:00.000-08:00

I was baptized Romanian Orthodox, and today is the Eve of the "Theophany" (the divine manifestation, God's appearance among men)of Our Lord & Saviour Jesus Christ. In plain English, the Baptism of Christ and when the worship of the Trinity was made manifest.

In the Eastern Orthodox tradition, this is 1 of the 12 great holidays. On the Eve we are in a Strict Fast. Fasting in the Orthodox faith is abstaining from all meats, dairy, and fish. Besides food:

"True fasting is the estrangement from evil, temperance of tongue, abstinence of anger, separation from desires, slander, falsehood perjury. Privation of these is the true fasting."
Saint Basil the Great

For more info on Fasting or the Theophany click on the words for the links.

Growing up in Romania, I can reminisce the gravity of following the traditions of the Church, especially in my grandmother's small town. On days of fasting, you did not do any chores. The dishes could be out to the roof of the kitchen and you did not touch them. The women in town prepared the day before in order to focus on just praying, Church attendance, and alms giving on the fast days.

It gave me so much comfort growing around that and I still get comfort from the little ole' Greek yiayia's at my church too. I respect anyone that can devote themselves and their time unconditionally. There are many blessings in that.

In the modern world, we make room for ways that we can alter the Scriptures to accommodate our daily lives. So much so sometimes, that we venture out from what was truly intended. Like I said, I am not one to preach, but it does make me sad that we have such little time for worship and reading the Bible.

Today, I took my little girl to Church and enjoyed the service and choir. I have been snacking all day, so there are no recipes to post. I had black coffee for breakfast, almonds & a pear for lunch, and chips & salsa for dinner. My focus today, was to learn about when Christ appeared in the Jordan River, to sanctify the waters and baptize man with the Holy Spirit. God did all of that for the forgiveness of OUR sins. A means of healing & restoring our souls. And a means of getting closer to Him and following in His path.

I am used to people who either don't believe or of different faith, making remarks or criticizing. Christianity is easily defend able. It teaches love, tolerance, charity, patience, unity, forgiveness, and hope. It's not about judging.
God can judge for himself, he needs US to help each other along.

This year I am aiming for balance. Balance of spirit & body!

Day 4:

2010-01-04T09:34:00.001-08:00

On this day, I was craving a sweet treat for breakfast.

I have been really well behaved for the past 3 days,
and did not eat dessert. I figured I deserved a bowl of
granola & honey flavored yogurt!

I made the granola from scratch....a first for me. It gave me one of those giddy feelings inside, when I came to the realization that I had control of the amount of nuts, cranberries, and apricots in my mix. I am always disappointed at the lack of goodies in my granola, when I purchase it from the store.

The recipe yields 4 servings, I made enough for 8.

Here's the recipe from William-Sonoma's Essentials of Breakfast & Brunch:

3 cups of rolled oats
1/4 cup each of walnuts & almonds, coarsely chopped
1/4 cup shredded coconut
1/4 cup maple syrup
1 tsp. vanilla extract
1/4 cup sesame oil
1/4 cup dried apricots
1/2 cup dried cranberries

Preheat oven to 325 degrees Fahrenheit.

In a large bowl, using a large spoon (I used my hands), mix together the oats, walnuts, almonds, and coconut. In a small bowl, stir together the maple syrup, vanilla, and sesame oil. Drizzle the maple syrup mixture over the oat mixture and stir to moisten evenly. Transfer the oat mixture to a rimmed baking sheet and spread in an even layer.

Bake, stirring every 7 minutes, until the oats just begin to turn golden, about 30 minutes. The granola should feel dry, rather than moist. It becomes crisp as it cools. Stir in the apricots and cranberries. Let cool on the baking sheet. Store in an airtight container at room temperature for up to a week.

I found a new Greek yogurt at the supermarket, that is cheaper. The only problem is it only comes in honey flavor. Fine by me for this purpose!

During the cooking process, my little rascally cat Ferris, wanted to play...............in the middle of my Christmas tree with the ornaments......sigh!

Lunch: Leftover turkey meatballs (no pasta) just meatballs, from yesterday's entry.

Dinner: Butter seared scallops (or as my kids call them "sea marshmallows") over a bed of arugula with lemon juice. So light before bed time and tasty too.

No time to go to the gym today......instead I seated my one 1 year old on my hip, and went up & down my basement stairs 20 times. I switched hips and she had a blast. I definitely got my heart rate up and my calves were feeling it too.

At the end of the evening, I hung up my "Inspiration" Board. Always wanted one of those magnetic/cork boards. I was so thrilled to finally treat myself. Reminders on one side and crafty projects on the other. I am in Heaven.

Day 3: The Spiritual Path

2010-01-03T18:32:00.000-08:00

Breakfast: Hard boiled eggs over bed of arugula with tomatoes and Dijon vinaigrette. My own invention, although I am certain someone else came up with it, and I just have not read that book yet. For now, I claim all rights to this dish.

After breakfast, it was time to put on our Sunday best and head to church.

Without the spiritual life in place, everything else struggles to stand on its own.

Today, we made sure that we got all 5 of us dressed and out the door in time for Divine Liturgy. I am not one to preach, because I was not the most outstanding Christian last year either. I missed so many Sundays, missed confession all together, fasted only P/T and my center of peace was off-kilter. One of the vows I made for 2010, in "NO MORE EXCUSES". Get up and go and think about how tired I was this morning after service, not before. The thought of doing something is not as relevant as doing it.

My spiritual father spoke today of walking the straight path of Christ toward the narrow gate. It rang loud and clear. Yes, we stumble along that path, but we are not expected to be "perfect". We are however expected to try and by the grace of God be given the knowledge to know when we are failing.

On the way home, my husband told the kids they were expected to do their chores. My 4 year old adamantly said,
"No Dad, not today."

"Why not?"

"Because, Mom told us that God worked and worked for 6 days to put together our Earth, and today was the day he took off. So we need to rest."

What can I say, he paid attention....AMEN!

While the children & husband napped after church, I ran to the gym. Yes, ALL was possible today after all. Remember, NO EXCUSES..........worked on the treadmill for 30 minutes (1.5 miles and burned 121 calories). Following the treadmill I hit all the arm and leg machines, for repetitions of 10. I need to build my upper body strength to do the monkey bars.

Lunch: Cup of broccoli & leek soup from yesterday's entry.

Dinner: Mario Batali's AWESOME Turkey meatballs & pasta sauce over fettuccine. The most tender turkey meatballs. The kids gobbled it up too. And I treated myself to a glass of wine with my Italian dinner.

Here's the recipe for the meatballs:

2 lbs. ground turkey
2 1/2 cups breadcrumbs
1/2 cup milk
2 large eggs, lightly beaten
4 garlic cloves, finely chopped
1 tbsp. chopped fresh rosemary
1 tbsp. hot red pepper flakes
2 tbsps. salt
2 tbsps. freshly ground black pepper

Preheat the oven to 475 degrees Fahrenheit.

To make the meatballs, in a large bowl combine the turkey, bread crumbs, milk, eggs, garlic, rosemary, red pepper flakes, salt, and pepper; and mix lightly with your hands until just combined. Form into golf ball-sized meatballs and place in a shallow casserole.

Roast the meatballs until dark golden brown, about 15 minutes. Remove from oven.

As a side note, you then reduce the oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit and add your tomato sauce (of your choice) to the meatballs. Place the casserole back in the oven for 1 hour.

All I can say is.........perfection. Love, love this recipe. Gracie signore Batali!

To end the evening, we watched Santa Buddies. The kids are fast asleep, as tomorrow is, back to school day. Today was a great day.

Good night sweet friends and see you tomorrow.

Day 2: A Little More Routine

2010-01-02T17:24:00.001-08:00

Today, my husband was back at work, which made my day seem a little more routine and challenging to get things done.

I did however sleep for 10 hours, which felt amazing. Made up for all the sleepless nights during the Holiday Festivities.

Breakfast: Oatmeal with blueberries and a drizzle of 100% Maple Syrup. I have convinced myself that the 100% Maple has to have more nutritional value than that Pancake Syrup stuff. Will need to do more research on that and let you know.

We ran a ton of errands today. We also visited the library. If you want a new way to work out, just place your 1 year old on the floor at the library, and then run back and forth putting books in their original place. Left me pretty breathless.

For the real workout today.....the hula hoop. I cannot keep that hoop around my waist longer than.....ooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 10 seconds at a time. Do it over and over again for 30 minutes, and you got yourself a full Cardio.

I figure if the Belly Dancing workout is the new craze, this is pretty close. My new goal, outside of crossing the monkey bars, is keeping the hula around my waist for 3 minutes straight like.........................

..........who else? My multi-talented 6 year old. He's my idol. If I can keep up with my children, I will be in fantastic physical condition.

Lunch: Cream of broccoli & leek soup, inspired by The Oprah Magazine Cookbook. Delish! Here is the recipe:

1 lg bunch of broccoli
1 Tbsp. olive oil
1 Tbsp. unsalted butter
2 med leeks, white and light green part only, thinly sliced
1 med baking potato, peeled and cut into 1-inch pieces
1 garlic clove, thinly sliced
3 cups of vegetable broth
Salt & White Pepper to taste
1/4 cup Fat Free Half & Half
1/4 cup of snipped chives

Separate broccoli stems from florets. Using a vegetable peeler, peel stems to remove tough outer layer, then slice into 1/4-inch-thick "coins". Break or cut the florets into small pieces. Reserve stems and florets separately.

In a medium saucepan, heat oil and butter over medium heat. Add leeks and cook, stirring often, until softened and fragrant, about 3 minutes. Add 3 cups of water, broth, salt and pepper; bring to a boil. Reduce heat; cover partially and simmer until broccoli and potato are tender, about 12 minutes.

Add florets; bring to a boil and then simmer 5 minutes. Transfer soup in batches to a blender or food processor, and puree until smooth. Return soup to saucepan; and half & half and chives, and reheat briefly.

Dinner: Salmon burgers on whole wheat buns with lettuce, tomatoes, and Dijon.

Did a couple more hula hoop rounds and called it a day! Good night sweet friends and see you tomorrow.

Day 1: Let The Good Living Begin

2010-01-01T18:47:00.001-08:00

There it was, staring back at me in Black & White! 161.1 lbs. I am a 5'7" woman who weighs 161.1 lbs and wearing a size 12. No muscle & no energy. I usually eat well, but I do not "portion control". And my one biggest addiction, SUGAR!!

I will not say the word "diet" because I do not believe in any diet out there. I believe in hard work and common sense. I do not want to be a size 0, I want to be comfortable in my own skin and able to run up the stairs without going into cardiac arrest.

That's why I made the choice of portioning out my food....get rid of those 10" plates. I am eating on the small plates with my boys. And the common sense part, well, stay away from lots of bad fats and especially Drive Thru windows. As far as my "sugar addiction", I am allowing myself to indulge in dessert ONCE a week, and not the entire batch of cookies.

Breakfast: Two hard boiled eggs with a touch of Tabasco for flavor, yellow bell peppers & tomatoes with a drizzle of olive oil and salt. Still enjoyed my morning cup of coffee too.

Getting me to actually go to the gym is a task and a half and I know most of you feel my pain. I am going to start slow and do activities that bring me joy, for example, walking to the neighborhood park with Ethan & Lance. They were so excited to go with mom. Ethan rode his bike, while Lance jogged there. The park is 1/2 mile each way.

Ethan drew a picture of his mother in the snow.......he forgot to add those extra pounds to the "stick figure".

Lance wanted to play tic-tac-toe in the snow. We spent an hour at the park, swinging, sliding, attempting the monkey bars, chasing each other with snow balls, making snow angels, and just getting out quality time in as a family.

We arrived home and were famished. First we washed off!

Lunch: Linguine with spicy leek & tomato sauce. Lite and flavorful. One small bowl, no seconds. Enough to fill my belly.

As expected, I got a sugar craving after lunch, because it was ritual for me to eat sweets after a meal. What to do? What to do?
Snack on an apple....ok....that kept me busy for a few short minutes. Now what? I am STILL craving sugar.......I walked around my house trying to make the best choice possible, without ruining this on the first day. Aha! A piece of gum. I chewed that piece of gum until it was the stalest piece of gum ever. It did the trick.

We listened to some children's music, read "The Adventures of Tom Sawyer", did some squats with my one year old on my shoulders, played the game Trouble and before you knew it, it was dinnertime.

Dinner: Prosciutto-wrapped cod w/ lemony spinach from Food Everyday. I know I poke fun at Dear Martha, but I do cook her recipes. I also added a small serving of green beans....the more vegetables the merrier.

I will share the recipe with you because it was quick and yummy and filling.

4 skinless cod fillets (6 t0 8 oz. each)
4 thin slices of prosciutto
2 tbsps of olive oil
3 bunches of spinach
2 lemons, 1 juiced & 1 cut into wedges

Heat broiler, with rack set 4 inches from heat. Season cod with salt & pepper. Wrap one slice prosciutto around each fillet; rub with 1 teaspoon oil, and place, seam side down, on a broiler proof baking sheet. Broil until prosciutto is browned and fish is opaque throughout, 8-12 minutes.

Meanwhile, in a large skillet, heat remaining 2 tablespoons oil over medium. Add as much spinach as will fit in skillet; season with salt and pepper. Cook tossing and adding more spinach as there is room, until wilted and tender, 4-6 mins. Sprinkle with lemon juice; toss to combine. Serve cod with spinach and lemon wedges.

Finished eating by 6PM and finished the night off with a cup of Green Tea. Before calling it a day, and what a great day it was, we had one more task at hand........................

"The Three Little Pigs."
One that went to the Bank, One that went to Charity, and One that went "wee wee" all the way to Dave & Busters.

Yes, we set up our, SAVE, SPEND, and CHARITY piggies as a family. We will all contribute to them throughout the month.

We are not assigning which Pig belongs to what category, because our boys will only contribute to the Spending Piglet. We will deposit equally across the board, whenever we have extra change in our pockets. On the last day of every month, we will open the piggies up and do the following:

SAVE: deposit in the kids bank accounts
SPEND: spend the money on a family activity (bowling, movies, golfing, etc.)
CHARITY: choose a different charity monthly to designate our funds to

I am off to bed dear friends. Part of being healthy is adequate zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz's and I need to get my 8 hours in. Good night and see you tomorrow.

Swap for Substance

2010-01-01T11:45:00.001-08:00

In 2010, I will be swapping "Distractions" for "Substance".

Eating a lot less of this....................

........for a lot more of this!

I will be swapping a lot less of this...........

.......for a lot more of this!
Goal, is to make it across the monkey bars
by the end of this year, just like my 6 year old.

I will be watching a lot less of this.............

.........and listening a lot more to this!

I will be reading a lot less of this..........

.....for the true "Living" provided in this!

I will be using a lot less of this...........

....in order to deposit a lot more in this!

What will your swap for substance be in 2010?

Follow me this year to witness the difference!

HAPPY NEW YEAR & NEW LIVING!

Most Memorable Moments of 2009

2009-12-31T06:55:00.000-08:00

What do all forms of media cover the last day of 2009? The most memorable moments! I decided I was going to do my own.

The first thing that I want to mention is how starting this blog has opened up so many doors for me. It has kept me thinking and not stuck in a daily rut. It allowed me to explore and grow and accomplish things I never considered. I met some wonderful bloggers and even grew closer to friends I already knew, that have their own blog. When you balance the purpose of a blog, it's quite useful and fun!

OK, now for my most memorable moments...............

Losing My Middle Son At the Mall
Mommy heart attack moment.

My Fruit Saga
I will never forget my sons going to bed with their hands up in the air.

Our 9 Yr Anniversary
My dear friends Mirela & Kat, bought us Spa Packages & set up dinner reservations for my husband & I. To top it off, they babysat the kids. Great friends! Such a treat for us.

Little Owen
Who didn't fall in love with this sweet little boy that my friend V at Bumble Beans posted about. We pray that he continues to do well in 2010 and that the naughty cancer stays away.

My Month of Depression
If you ask my best friends about this, they will clearly remember it too, because it was one of the most unusual phases I have gone through, and they were there to bail me out. Thanks husband for being there and putting up with that too.

Reaching $1000 "Cookies for Kids Cancer" Goal
Soooo much work, so many sleepless nights, but it was all well worth it. Especially when you know who benefits from it.

The Wilton Cake Decorating Class
Met so many wonderful moms and had a night out to myself doing what I love, decorating cakes.

My Sons Stealing Gum
I know it's a serious topic, but this makes me laugh just thinking about it. You just need to read the story to know why!

A Great Easter With A Great Bunch

Mother's Day With Grandma

Ethan Turning 6
His party at the Aquarium was so much fun and so easy!

My Daughter's Christening
.....and the tornado that hit Denver that weekend......but the best part was having all of our family members and friends in one place. And a surprise visit from Monica.

The Mohawks

Southern Utah & Loa Trip

Trip to Oregon
Beautiful City

My Uncle's Passing

Adopting A New Cat
Little rascal

Zip lining

My Son's 4th Birthday

Finishing My First Quilt

Birth of My Nieces

My Daughter's First Birthday
.........and her first steps

Wedding In Austin

Dave Ramsey Seminar
Changed our finances for life

Going To See Wicked & Girls Only

My Best Friend Moving To Texas

Christmas With My Family
Thank you grandparents for making it special

I never realized how much has really occurred this year, both sad and happy. Thank you for sharing this year with me and I wish ALL OF YOU............

A HAPPY 2010!!!!!!

Three Things......

2009-12-30T08:39:00.000-08:00

Before the New Year arrives, there are 3 items that need attention without question!

1) A New Calendar
Mark all birthdays, school events, trips planned, etc.

2) Refresh Address Book
I go through my planner and replace old pages with new ones. Remove contacts that I no longer keep in touch with and add new friends that I have made.

3) Files
Put away paperwork in a marked box for the current year and create new folders for the upcoming year. In the process, I also create an IRS Folder of items that can be claimed. My filing system is what gives me sanity and control of documents coming into our home.

Name Wall Hangings & Appliqued Onesies

2009-12-17T22:38:00.000-08:00

For my daughter's Christening, my friend made Kate a name plaque that is hanging up in her room. I loved it so much, that I had the need to make something that special for someone in my life. Hence, Gia & Maya, my nieces.

Gia's room is the same ladybug theme as my daughter's, which made it easy for me to pre-plan.

I purchased my supplies, where else? Michaels! They need to sponsor me with all the plugs I have been giving them this Season. The cost for the wooden supplies was $8. The paint $4 and I already had the necessary brushes.

Paint one item at a time with your solids first, dry for 2 hrs before adding all the details. Look at your inspiration, and lay out your road map before beginning.

Maya is in Arizona, and she has lots of pinks and purples in her room. I used the butterfly as my guide for the colors and patterns.

Now that I was done with the Wall hangings, it was time for my next project. Appliqued Onesies. G for Gia!

I found this cute batik pattern at the Great American Quilt store in Denver. I adored the XOXO and felt it portrayed how I feel about my precious 3 month old niece.

Batiks need to soak in hot water several times, to ensure the dye has completely run its course. The red took me 10 soaks, while the pink took only 5. You will know it is done when the hot water is clear and the fabric no longer.................

.........leaves the water looking like this. Would hate to have the onesie turn that color. It is imperative to soak the fabric FIRST!

This paper, better known as WonderUnder, makes appliqueing a cinch. Simply trace your image onto the smooth side of the paper, iron onto wrong side of the fabric and follow the instructions indicated. The paper acts as an adhesive for the fabric. Iron onto the tee/onesie and stitch. I used the a blanket stitch on my G!

You can purchase WonderUnder at quilt stores or Joanna Fabrics.

The day would not be complete without a Holiday Treat. This year I made Paula Deen's Peanut Butter Cheese Fudge.

All I can say is, "It's real yummy ya'll."

A must try and it will definitely impress your friends who are used to the traditional chocolate fudge.

Don't forget to stop by the Shabby Chic Cottage for Transformation Thursdays.

Hot Cocoa & Chai Tea Gifts

2009-12-10T10:17:00.000-08:00

I don't know about you, but I won't turn down a hot cup of hot cocoa or Chai. I made a blend of both to give away as ONE GIFT!

Filled a jar with the Chai Tea Mix and printed out a recipe card using Smilebox. You will notice the corner picture of my 1 year old doing a face plant in the snow.

The cocoa mix was placed into a cellophane bag, and packed inside an over sized mug from Cost Plus World Market ($2.50 each) that says "Good Morning" on it.

I tried both just to make sure they were good before giving them away, and oh so comforting and smooth.

Here is the Chai Tea Mix recipe from Christmas With Southern Living 2007.

2 1/2 tsp. ground ginger
2 tsp. ground cinnamon
3/4 tsp. ground cloves
1 tsp. ground allspice
1 tsp. ground nutmeg
1/2 tsp. freshly ground black pepper
1 1/2 cups unsweetened instant tea
1 1/2 cups of sugar
1 cup nonfat dry milk powder
1 cup powdered nondairy creamer
1 cup French vanilla flavored powdered nondairy creamer

Combine spices and tea in a food processor or blender. Blend 1-2 minutes until mixture is a fine powder. Pour into a large bowl. Add sugar to processor or blender and process until superfine about 30 seconds. Add sugar to bowl of spices. Stir in milf powder and creamers, blend well. Spoon mix into gift jars.

To serve, 2 heaping Tbsps. Chai mix into a mug of hot milk or boiling water.

Hot Cocoa Mixture

4 cups of nonfat dry milk powder
1 cup of powdered nondairy creamer
1 cup of sugar
1 cup of Hershey's unsweetened cocoa

Blend all ingredients well and spoon into containers.

To serve, 5 tbsps. of Cocoa mix into a mug of hot milk or boiling water.

Also, check out the never disappointing ideas and giveaway at The Shabby Chic Cottage on Transformation Thursday.

Onesie Update

2009-12-09T07:17:00.000-08:00

I apologize for the late update. I have been sick and did not accomplish much. I finally finished them last night. Here are three examples of what you can do with a plain onesie and some frills.

I purchased the ruffles for $1.64/yd at Walmart.

Measured, cut, and then sewed it on to the pre-existing seams on the ruffle and onesie. Added some cute lavender buttons and there you have it.......make sure you sew the buttons on really, really well, to prevent them from falling off and posing as a choking hazard to the infant.

My holiday onesie, I showed a preview of it in my last post, and wanted to show you the final product once the sleeves were sewed on. It can be dressed up with a red skirt for Christmas and you would have a semi-formal outfit for you little one.

This was simple. Sew on a basic stitch around the neckline and sleeves with pink thread and add a cute floral button. Done, but it takes the monotony out of a white onesie with no embellishments.

So many more projects to finish and so little time. Christmas is right around the corner, hope I can get it all done........must keep up on my Vitamin C!

Festive Onesies

2009-12-04T04:34:00.000-08:00

I have lots of little ones for Christmas this year, especially little girls. I wanted to create my own Onesie for all of them with a Festive Feel. I love cranberry, what can I say? Emerald silk trimmings did not talk to me.

I purchased a set of 4 long sleeved Onesies from Babies R Us for $10. The trimmings from Walmart cost $1.27 for the flowers (set of 6) and $1.64/yard for the ruffle. I was delighted with my choices and was anxious to finish them once the kids fell asleep tonight.

I sewed on the flowers while the kids played during the day. My husband came home and now it was time to sit at the machine and complete my project, so I can blog about it.

Oooooops, no white thread..............are you kidding me? Isn't that a staple of everyone's sewing kit? It is but tonight I had no luck..........................

...................you need to come back and see the finished product. I will be sewing the ruffles to the sleeves. I have various colors for various looks. White satin, pink satin, embroidered ruffle, etc., so you must come back.

Fudgy Goodness

2009-12-03T07:12:00.000-08:00

I only know a handful of people that do not like sugar.....

so your odds are quite good for a friend or family member or neighbor,diving into a sweet treat made by you this Christmas.
Today, I chose my indulgent Pecan & Marshmallow Fudge.

One trick I have learned about baking is........ cut down on your sugar input. We tend to put so much sugar that we are unable to taste anything else. Whichever recipe you decide to use for your fudge, cut out at least 1/4 cup of the sugar mentioned.

I promise you will relish the results.

Divide the layers of fudge with parchment paper, so that it does not stick together.

I purchased this darling container at Michaels for $1.99.
I really enjoy containers with "peek-a-boo windows".

It creates anticipation, especially if the treat inside is intriquing.

While I was putting together the treat, my little Kate was enjoying the few inches of powdered snow we got today.

She ate some snow and fudge too......great day for her.

Sentimental Ornaments

2009-12-02T05:42:00.000-08:00

Link up with The Shabby Chick Cottage for other fantastic ideas.

My grandparents are both spending their Christmas in Heaven this year, but I wanted to make something to celebrate their memory. I decided to design an ornament with their photograph and give them as a gift to my father and his siblings.

I scanned the black & white photo into my computer First.

Second, I uploaded the photograph onto http://www.picnik.com/ to have some fun with it. I used the blush feature in order to add some color to my grandmother's dress & my grandfather's belt.

Third, I saved my work and printed the image on normal paper with 4 x 6 dimensions to shrink it.

I traced the shape of the ornament onto the image. Cut it out and sealed it with Modge Podge onto the ornament. I did the same with the cranberry tissue paper and sealed it to the back of the ornament. I finished it with acrylic paint on the sides and front.

Easy as pie, I swear! And it will make a lasting impression on those family members you just don't know what to get this Holiday Season.

Crocheted Scarves

2009-12-01T07:43:00.000-08:00

The first thing I decided to make are scarves!
Everyone could use a warm scarf around their neck for the winter.
This year is supposed to be a hard winter too,
so I thought it would be a real practical gift for the kids and adults alike.

I took one class where I learned the Basic Crochet. The single, the double, and the treble. The first scarf is a Wool-Ease yarn (at Michaels), using a 9mm needle and Double Crochet throughout. Added some fringes at the end! $13 total cost
and it can double as a blanket, I made it so long and thick.

The green scarf is for my oldest son, Ethan.
He picked out his yarn and is so excited to get it as a gift for Christmas. I used a 6 mm needle and single crochet. Cost $8. Not done with it yet, and I was considering sewing on a cool patch when finished.

The third scarf (on the right) is for my 2 year old niece in NY.
I used a multicolored yarn with a 6 mm needle. I began with 16 chains (needs to be multiples of 4), and for Row 2, you Sc in the first 2 sc, chain 3, and sc in the next sc, chain 3 and so on until the scarf is complete. Cost $2.99.

Overall, it took me approximately 3-4 hours per scarf and I cannot wait to wrap them.

It feels so good to make a gift for a loved one,
that is made with attention to detail and from the heart.

Holiday Inspirations

2009-11-28T10:06:00.000-08:00

What do you do when entering a charming store,

but this year you made a "Handmade Only" oath?

You get inspired!

Do you see anything in this picture that you can make
for a loved one for Christmas?

Maybe the Holiday Faerie can cast an artistic spell on you.......

Look closer....this is not your conventional frame.
It's been cut out of fabric and placed
strategically around the store.

Hmmmmmm, that would make a novel gift, don't you think?

How about making your friends and family silk padded hangers,

so they can get rid of those "wire hangers".
Joan Crawford would be proud.

There are so many possibilities out there.......

come back to see the ones I chose as of December 1st.

My Own Black Friday

2009-11-27T14:20:00.000-08:00

I know most of my friends finished their Turkey Dinner, had lots of caffeine, and then lined up at the stores at Midnight.

It was such a relief to not do that this year....OK, I have never done that, but this year I am not purchasing gifts. I am making them instead! The only presents that will be purchased for Christmas is for our Adopt-A-Family through the Denver Rescue Mission.

As of December 1st, I will be posting my handmade gifts for 25 Days....my very own personal and made with love gifts.

In the meantime, take theopportunity to appreciate the meaning of Christmas through the spirit of kindness, attentiveness, prayer, and serenity.

Today I Am Grateful For Company

2009-11-25T13:03:00.000-08:00

Even though I whine about making Thanksgiving every year for a decent amount of guests, I am so grateful that I have people I love to share it with. It's always a gathering of cherished friends and family. Wouldn't it be worse to spend it alone? Absolutely! So when you are overwhelmed with the cooking and setting up, take a moment and appreciate, who is coming to spend the holiday with you.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE and may you always be blessed!

Today I Am Grateful For "Waived Fees"

2009-11-23T08:06:00.000-08:00

You know, the kind where you have never been late on anything, and all of a sudden your payment just doesn't quite get there on time? It's nice to know that once in a while the customer gets preferable treatment and we are entitled to at least ONE waived fee.

Today I Am Grateful For Grandma Coming To Town

2009-11-21T05:40:00.000-08:00

My mother-in-law is coming out today to visit with us and especially the kids. I love living in Colorado, but I miss having family around.

Grandma has visited with us every month this year and I am SO grateful for that, because she is one of the few that makes such a tremendous effort. My kids kept singing in the car yesterday, "Grandma's going to spoil us". I asked them, who else spoils you?

"Grandma, Santa, and Jesus!" Great category to be in.

Today I Am Grateful For My Son Reading To Me

2009-11-20T07:43:00.000-08:00

Ethan is 6 years old and read an entire book to me last night. I was crying while he read to me, which he found "weird". If you too are a parent, you know why I was so emotional.

It's amazing how fast they grow up and become independent. I am so proud of him and so grateful, that for once he can tell me a story, instead of the other way around.

Today I Am Grateful For Pass Alongs

2009-11-18T21:17:00.000-08:00

My friend did not need or want to use a $10 Gift card to Kohls, and passed it along to me.

My son Ethan has only two pairs of pants and really needed an extra. I was able to purchase a pair of jeans for him with my $10 card.

"One man's junk is another man's treasure."

That applies to gift cards and coupons too. Pass it along, don't throw it away.

Today I Am Grateful For My "Thank You"

2009-11-17T19:21:00.000-08:00

Have you ever done or said something, not aware that it would affect someone's life or choices? You were just being yourself, while your words resonated a million times over?

Today, I received a phone call from my friend, to thank me for helping her come to an important decision. She thanked me for conversations and incidences that took place many months ago. It was heartfelt and sincere, and in return she made me feel very grateful to have her as my friend.

Today I Am Grateful For A Quiet Sleepover

2009-11-17T06:34:00.000-08:00

We had our son's friend Tyler sleep over for the first time last night. Our husband and I were convinced that no one would get any sleep. I mean how would that even be remotely possible, when there is a 6 year old, a 5 year old, and a 4 year old in one small room?

The Lord must've been smiling on us last night, because they all fell asleep by 8:30 PM and woke up in time for school this morning. I gave them all a high five for being such good sports.

Today I Am Grateful For Lazy Days

2009-11-16T08:15:00.001-08:00

It snowed another foot in Denver yesterday, which means we were forced to stay in and do NOTHING! OK, maybe not forced but, it definitely served as a motivation to be unproductive without the guilt.

A lazy day of playing with the kids, eating, naps, and just being together. Days like these come around a handful of times during a 365 Day period, and I cherish each one.

Today I Am Grateful For Random Plans

2009-11-15T09:39:00.000-08:00

I was feeling lazy last night and had no plans to do anything, when the phone rang at 5 PM. My friend, Emily, had 3 extra tickets to a show in Denver called "Girls Only". The tickets were Free and it sounded like a good time. I went and laughed so hard for two hours straight, that I got a migraine and a perma-grin.

Sometimes, the best plans are the ones that were not planned to begin with.

Today I Am Grateful For Heavenly Baking Results

2009-11-13T17:26:00.000-08:00

Whenever I am asked to bring a food item to a party, it doesn't always go as planned. Today the "baking gods" were in my favor for this Chocolate Bundt w/ Hershey's Ganache!

Today I Am Grateful For Individual Time

2009-11-13T09:01:00.000-08:00

3 kids always share their time with Mom & Dad! Yet they are all so different and require their own moments with their parents. Today, I had such an opportunity, while my daughter napped for 3 hours.

My middle son, Lance & I, colored, glued things together, connected the dots, read, and had a jolly ole time together. Just mommy and him. No one else to distract from his charm or from the undivided attention he craves.

Today I Am Grateful For A Glimpse Of Silliness

2009-11-12T06:53:00.001-08:00

I sat on the couch and watched my 1 year old acting silly with my 4 year old. They entertained themselves for 30 mins. playing peek-a-boo. Nothing makes a mother more sentimental than watching her kids get along and have fun in the process.

Today I Am Grateful For & Humbled By Our Veterans

2009-11-11T10:46:00.000-08:00

Thank you for standing up for our country and the freedoms of the everyday folk. Thank you for your sacrifice, your integrity, your diligence, and your patriotism!

Today I Am Grateful For Naps

2009-11-10T07:29:00.000-08:00

Once you are a parent, sleeping becomes a pastime. It is difficult to shut off your brain and get some much needed Zzz in the middle of the day. Well, yesterday while both my boys were in school, I decided to take a 2 hour nap with my daughter on the couch. It felt so wonderful, that I passed out with a big grin on my face.

Today I Am Grateful For A Day Out On The Town

2009-11-09T07:10:00.000-08:00

I am a parent of three who feels guilty to have the kids babysat and go out somewhere. Yesterday, I did just that! It has been about a year. I went down to the Brown Palace for the Annual Champagne Cascade, celebrating the Broncos 50Th Year! We had a blast! Great food, entertainment, but most of all, an opportunity to hang out with my best friend and husband.

Today I Am Grateful For My Friends

2009-11-07T06:27:00.000-08:00

I have been blessed with a handful of true, genuine, caring friends. Not the 100 list of friends I have on Face book, but the ones that are involved in my life during good times and bad times.

So, I wanted to make a list of the things that make my girlfriends so important to me.

Even though some of them are single, they hang out with me and my kids, instead of partying all night
They have unconditional love for my children, which has entitled them to becoming "aunties"
They are generous with what little they have
They are there to wipe my tears and build me up
They humor me with my grand ideas and adventures
They make me laugh
They support my faith, my marriage, my direction in life
They babysit for me free of charge
They always offer help
They are honest
They will always call me back
They follow through with their promises and expect the same from me
They are kindhearted and looking for the good in what life can offer them
They don't judge, they observe and give feedback
They are my family

Today I Am Grateful For Resources

2009-11-05T19:00:00.000-08:00

My resources: books & magazines!

Good Housekeeping taught me about a site called www.plasticjungle.com who sells used/new gift cards at a discount. They are not expired and have over 1,400 merchants on their site, from food to clothing to home stores.

Woman's Day helped me discover www.vipdesk.com . Stay at home moms can apply for a position in becoming a "virtual concierge".

A book called Christmas In Colorado opened my eyes to all of the magical Holiday Celebrations right here in my state. Events I was not aware of after being a resident for 8 years. I am even that much more excited about Christmas now.

Today I Am Grateful For My Mother's Eyes

2009-11-04T19:11:00.000-08:00

I lost my mother 19 years ago and I miss her terribly. Today, as I was fixing my hair in the rear view mirror of my car, I looked through my eyes and into my mother's soul. I, along with my son, have inherited her big brown eyes. She may not physically be here, but I feel her presence through our inheritance.

Today I Am Grateful For Sunny Skies & Snow

2009-11-03T07:31:00.000-08:00

My favorite part of living in Colorado is wearing a T-shirt with snow on the ground. Yesterday was such a day. Clear blue skies, glazing sun, and glistening snow. I took the kids to the park, played in the sandbox, followed by a snowball fight. Oh, how I cherish days such as these.

Month of Blessings

2009-11-02T16:34:00.000-08:00

November is National Adoption Month, Veterans Day, and it's the month that families and friends unite for Thanksgiving.

In November, we also realize that Christmas is right around the corner. Most of us go into panic mode, because we do not have enough money to purchase presents and spoil our kids efficiently. In 2009 that becomes even more evident when the majority of us have lost our jobs or taken a cut in pay. It's time to refocus on what is essentially important and what true blessings look like.

Slow down and take in what really makes our hearts tick and our souls flourish. I will be posting my Daily Blessings and would love to hear what you are also grateful for. Big and small! Let's not panic about Christmas, but give back it's true meaning in order to fill our spirits with bliss and joy, instead of anxiety and greed for things we don't really need.

Today I am grateful for helpful strangers

It's so easy to recognize people that may ruin our day on the way to work, or in the supermarket, or on the airplane, or at a collection agency. But what about the people that rescue our day?

Today, my husband and I, for the first time ever, ran out of gas and our car completely stopped. Thankfully, we were within walking distance of a gas station. However, after putting a gallon of gas in the car, it still did not start.

Along side of us, pulled over a generous woman, who called her husband (the mechanic) instantly, without us even asking her to. She hung up and advised us to fill up the car with at least 3-5 gallons of gas and then give it a whirl. She gave us her number, before taking off, in case we needed further assistance.

This woman was filled with loads of good will and helped us out of a frustrating circumstance.

My 4 year old, emphatically said, "Mom, thank God for that nice lady, right?"

"Right, Lance."

Thank God for her and all those strangers, whose names and faces we do not recognize, but are willing to go out of their way for others, out of the goodness in their hearts and pureness of their spirit.

We Did It!

2009-10-26T15:22:00.001-07:00

7 Days -$50-5 mouths fed.

It can be done. We did do it.

What an eye opener it has been.

Our last supper was Hominy Soup (above) at .35 per serving with leftovers and Turkey Meatballs & Spaghetti at .85 cents per serving with leftovers as well.

I promised I would do a Surprise Giveaway at the end of my challenge.

The winner is Dawn from Are These Kids All Yours? Please take a few minutes to visit her blog and see what a
tremendous heart and the Faith of God allows you to accomplish.

As my giveaway, I will be donating $35 on The Wright Family's blog
for them to bring Naomi (Baby no. 8) home from Ethiopia.

Dinner for 8

2009-10-24T10:12:00.000-07:00

Barefoot Contessa's

Chicken Stew w/ Biscuits

(click for full recipe)

My friends came over last night and this is what I made for a party of 8! I had to use ONLY the ingredients on hand.

Here were some of my altercations to this recipe, that came out Yummy.

I used a whole chicken, carrots, and celery to make homemade broth instead of purchasing it. Simmered it for 2 hours and reserved the chicken meat and carrots for the stew.

For the roux, I used 2% milk instead of the heavy cream. Skipped out on the frozen small onions.Did not use parsley for the biscuits. The stew was a hit.

My friends loved it and there was enough to fill up all 8 bellies and then some. Thankfully they brought the wine and we did not serve dessert because I ran out of ingredients.

The cost per serving: $1.04 (includes Salad too)

Company's Coming

2009-10-23T08:12:00.000-07:00

Tonight, I am having company over. Those of you that have followed me this week, know that I shopped for the entire week with $50.

Yesterday, we ate a lot of leftovers. Bagels in the morning, leftover drumsticks, and pasta for dinner.

Today, I want to use the groceries in my fridge, but still create something substantial and enticing for my friends to eat. I decided that I would cook a recipe from my Barefoot Contessa Book. It is baked chicken stew with biscuits on top. It's homey and makes a nice presentation. I will have to improvise some of the ingredients, but I do have 95% of what I need.

Not sure about dessert yet. Might just bake some cookies or make a pound cake topped with berries.

Come back tomorrow to see what I was able to entertain with, while remaining in my budget. Wish me luck!

Day 3: Grocery Challenge Meals

2009-10-22T09:13:00.000-07:00

I am almost half way through my challenge! Here are some of the observations I've made along the way.

a. when you need to consume all that you have purchased for $50, there is Zero waste
b. there is little trash
c. you end up eating proper portion sizes

Yesterday, we did not necessarily eat the lowest fat food content, but again the portions were smaller.

For snacks, we ate a lot of fruit and carrot sticks. Pears, apples & bananas. Drank a lot of water and tea.

Sunny side Over Hash
Cost per serving: .36 cents

.88 cents for potatoes
.5 cents for onion
free tomato from garden
.50 cents for 5 eggs
.25 cents shredded cheese
.10 cents for oil/butter
.2 cents for seasonings

Total $1.80 divided by 5 = .36 cents per serving (shown above)

Note: you can shred your own potatoes. I purchased a bag of Simply Potatoes sold in the Egg Section at King Soopers for .88 cents per bag.

Hoisin Glazed Drumsticks Over Rice
Cost per serving: .72 cents (includes 2-3 drumsticks per person)

.10 cents for rice
3.00 for 15 drumsticks
.50 cents for hoisin & seasonings
.50 cents for chicken stock

Total $4.10 divided by 5 = .72 cents

Ice Cream Wednesday

(My son thought it should be called Wednesday instead of Sundae)

Cost Per Serving: .38 cents

.50 cents for 3 scoops of ice cream

.50 cents for cherries

.10 cents for bananas

.5 cents for chocolate syrup

Total $1.15 divided by 3 (only 3 of us tackled this one) = .38 cents per serving

2009-10-21T08:04:00.000-07:00

Day 2: Grocery Challenge Meals

Last night, my husband and I were discussing the "what ifs" scenarios. I grew up in NYC and he lived there for 10 years, working as a hairdresser. We made so much money, only to be in debt today.

We calculated that on an average, and this is a low guesstimate, we spent $10-$12K a year in dining, drinking, and transportation while living in the Big Apple. We were single and blowing away every penny we earned, in order to have "fun". If we took that money and invested it for over a period of 10 years, we would've paid our house outright and had some savings.

Unfortunately, we cannot turn back time, but we can change how we live in the present. Is owning the new "it" item in your life, really worth it? True fulfillment in our lives does not come from material or monetary things, but from something deeper inside of us. Friendships, family, experiences, our Faith, our generosity and giving back, learning something new, being a part of the world we live in.

I am not implying that there is anything wrong with owning luxury, as long as you can truly afford it and not go into debt for it, just to keep up with the Joneses.

OK, now back to the meals.

Ricotta Pancakes w/ Bananas & Maple Syrup
Cost per serving: .45 cents

$1.50 for ricotta
.20 cents for 2 eggs
.20 cents for maple syrup
.10 cents for banana
.20 butter
.5 flour

Total: $2.25 divided by 5 = .45 cents per serving

Each serving is the 4 pancakes shown above.

Tell me what I-Hop or McDonalds can you purchase Ricotta Pancakes for .45 cents?

Whole Grain Pasta w/ Garlic Shrimp & A Salad (shown below)
Cost per serving: $1.61

$5.59 shrimp
$1.00 pasta
.5 cents garlic
.10 cents butter
.10 cents oil
free garden tomatoes
.5 cents parsley
.50 salad greens
.50 cucumber
.15 cents for salad dressing

Total: $8.04 divided by 5 = $1.61 per serving

Again, I am trying to show you, that you do not need to completely deprive yourself of the things you love to eat, just because you are on a budget. With some planning, supermarket deals, and coupons, you can still eat well.

2009-10-20T07:52:00.000-07:00

Day 1: Grocery Challenge Recipes

OK, so you are broke and living on a really, really tight budget! You want to get away from eating peanut butter or tuna fish sandwiches, or warming up Romen noodle soup, or considering cereal your main course for dinner tonight. Now what?

The following meals cost me less than $1 per serving. That's right! Less than $1. So it's not Food Network material, but every family is capable of purchasing and eating it too.

Scrambled Eggs w/ Fresh Tomato, Jalapeno, & Chives Salsa
Cost Per Serving: .60 Cents including the Bagel

You can purchase a carton of eggs for $1 these days. That's around .8 cents per egg.
The bagels were on the clearance rack at King Soopers for $1.25 for a bag of 6. That's .20 cents per bagel.
I used fresh tomatoes & chives out of my garden.
Jalapenos cost .10 or less each at the market.

Baked Kraft Mac & Cheese with Broiled Turkey Franks
Cost Per Serving: .35 cents

OK, you might think I'm lying, but here is the breakdown.

I bought 3 Boxes of Kraft Mac & Cheese for $1 at Safeway (weekend promotion). I only used 2 boxes(.67 cents). I cooked it according to the box instructions. I then added an additional 1/3 cup shredded cheddar and 1/3 cup of breadcrumbs in a bowl. Baked at 350 degrees for 15 minutes in a muffin pan, in order to create individual servings for the kids.

The turkey hot dogs cost $1.00 for 8 franks. That's around .8 cents per link. I broiled them for approx 8 mins. I thought the boys would enjoy them crispy.

Creamy Carrots Soup
Cost Per Serving: .80 cents

$1.00 for a 1 lb. bag of carrots
$2.00 for homemade chicken broth
.50 for sour cream
.50 cents for 1 potato, 1 onion, & seasonings

That's $4.00 total divided by 5 servings = .80 cents per serving

Homemade Bread

I ran out of bread last night & knew that my son and husband needed to take a sandwich for work today. Instead of running to the store, I baked my own. I had plenty of flour & yeast at home to whip up a batch. The texture is so much more substantial and the taste is incomparable. I will be honest in saying that it takes finesse to work with dough.

If you've never made bread before, start with a loaf of Irish Soda bread, which is less work and easier to maneuver. If you have a Bread Machine that has not been used in 15 years or so, time to wipe off the dust and use it. And if you feel extra domesticated today, then get your hands dirty.

Thanks for stopping by today and come back tomorrow for more Budget Friendly meal ideas.

Grocery Spree

2009-10-18T21:20:00.001-07:00

The Grocery Challenge was to spend $50 for 7 days worth of food for a family of 5! Well, I am thrilled to say that my overall bill for the groceries in this photo came out to $49.11.I was .89 under my goal, .30 of that was bag discounts
(bring your own Earth Friendly bags).

I love food and cannot live on over-proccessed or unhealthy foods, just to get by financially. The health of my family is too important.

The overall goal then is:
$50 week for a semi-gourmet & healthy menu.

I did cheat a little and bought 3 boxes of Kraft Mac & Cheese, but that's because the deal was 3 boxes for $1 at Safeway. I will find a way to spice those boxes up too.

I sat down and scanned my cookbooks for some ideas,
and was absolutely shocked to come up with 50 different recipes for my $50 worth of food. Join me for the next 7 days, beginning on Tuesday, for breakfast, lunch, and dinner,
ON A BUDGET, BUT STILL FRESH & FABULOUS!

Grocery Challenge: Specials & Coupons

2009-10-15T16:29:00.000-07:00

For those of you that did not read my last post, I am hosting a Grocery Challenge. The challenge is a $50 shopping trip with enough food to last you for the week. I am a family of 5 so this does feel like a challenge.

Now, I realize that if I lived off of overly processed and boxed meals, this is a very attainable goal, but that is NOT what I am aiming for. I believe strongly in actually nourishing your body versus empty calories. I do have my days, don't get me wrong.

OK, here are my 1ST steps prior to running wild in the supermarkets.

Step 1: Take careful inventory of the groceries that you already have and/or are about to expire.

I have plenty of carrots from my garden, eggs, and oatmeal. Already I know that I will have what I need for some basic breakfast meals e.g. omelets, muffins, boiled eggs, pancakes/waffles, oatmeal, and frittatas. The carrots will provide me with soups and side dishes.

Use up what is about to expire so there is NO WASTE! We waste too much food in the USA. Take a little bit of time to check the labels or freshness of your food and see how you can put it to use immediately, before it ends up in the trash.

Step 2: Check your supermarket specials.

Mine are mailed to me every Tuesday. I have 4 supermarkets in close diameter that I am able to compare for the best deals. I realize that is not the case for all of you and it might require some research. Walk to the store and ask them for their fliers or check out their website.

I have plenty of friends that complain about, " I just don't have the time to go through those."

Well, I have a pretty jam packed schedule too and manage to do just fine. If you only knew how much money it saved you in the long run, you would feel downright dumb if you did not take an extra 20 minutes out of the week to do this. Grab a magic marker and circle ONLY the specials that INTEREST YOU! You do not have to purchase everything that's on sale or use every coupon you come across.

The first items I always look at are the vegetables and then the proteins. I know that if I can manage to get a decent amount of each, I will have a well balanced meal for my family.

I've been using coupons and the papers for years, I just never budgeted an amount of $50 before.

Step 3: Get to know your deals.

Well, what is a good deal on potatoes, you might ask? This type of knowledge will come with shopping your different local markets for a few months. Either way you will recognize any deal when it is astronomically cheaper than what you have been made to believe is the "norm".

Here are some items that I know are a deal:

99 cents or less per lb on protein (usually chicken or pork)
99 cents for a 10lb. bag of potatoes (check it out its in the paper listed above)
$1.25 or less on a box of cereal
50 cents per avocado
$1.00 or less on a box of Barilla Pasta (you can get cheaper pasta, but Barilla to me is the most reliable that does not fall apart)
Under $1.99 for a Gallon of Milk
50 cents for herbs, scallions, or bell peppers

Every state is different, but I guarantee that if you keep you eyes and mind open, you will find amazing deals.

Step 4: Learn the lingo.

Notice below, it says 5 for $5. Guess what? That means $1 each. You DO NOT have to purchase 5 for $5. I know that seems like a "Duh" thing but most of us believe that we absolutely need to buy the maximum amount to get the deal. Read the labels. It will let you know if that is the case, but for the most part you can buy one item only, and still get the deal!

It's all in the marketing Baby! These guys are smart!

Step 5: Make a list.

Once you are done circling what you want to shop for, make a list of all the markets and their items. This is what you will use to shop. One concise list, not 4 different papers to flip through.

Price out each item on your list, total it up (including taxes) and stay within your budget. If you are even $1 dollar off, go back and see what you can live without this week.

Step 6: Coupons, coupons, coupons.

Clip those babies up. It's free money people!!!! Money you can use to save or fix your car with.

My sister in law always told me that she spends more shopping when using coupons. Why? Again, you do not have to use a coupon because it is a coupon. Only clip coupons on items you already purchase on a regular basis or would definitely use.

I do not clip coupons for junk food or soda if I do not consume them at all. I will clip coupons on butter, eggs, protein, juice, cereal, etc. You get the point. STAY FOCUSED!

I clip my coupons and file them by month. I can keep track of when they expire and make sure I get to use them in time. Once I make my list, I go through them and match them up with my intended purchases.

For example, below, Progresso Soups are on Sale for $1.00 Each. My coupon is good for 50 cents on 2! When that coupon is doubled, I get one can for FREE! Yes, FREE!

Step 7: Check the coupon fine print.

What do I mean by that? Supermarkets will Double even Triple your coupons on certain weeks. Your 33 cent coupon, just became 99 cents off. Your 50 cent coupon, $1 off. Take advantage of maximizing your their value. However, coupons $1.00 or more remain for that value.

Now you have your list, your coupons, and you are right on the $50 mark! Now what?

Come back to see how once you have those groceries on hand, how to plan your meals. I will have a meal by meal plan for you daily next week, starting Monday. I will definitely get creative, because I have a lot of hungry people in my house.

Will I be able to pull it off or will we crack and drive thru Burger King?

For those of you who Participate and Post Comments, one of you will receive a SURPRISE GIVEAWAY at the end of next week. It's useful and handy and ties into what we are doing. Hmmmmmm......what is it? Find out. Come back.

Grocery Challenge

2009-10-14T08:29:00.000-07:00

My husband and I got signed up for the Dave Ramsey, Financial Peace University. A friend of ours noticed that we were in dire need of a financial makeover.

We are a family of 5 living on one income, paycheck to paycheck. We are also in a lot of debt. Medical, educational, you name it, DEBT. We acquired it because we did not PLAN. Plan for kids, plan for a home, plan for cars, plan for an education. How funny right? These are common things that we all need to finance at some point and yet we hope that the money will magically appear.

So we Borrowed! Yes we borrowed from our reliable institutions just waiting for our signature on the dotted line. A signature that allows them to absorb what little we do have.

OK, now that I am done whining, it's time to be Proactive. My husband and I created our first Monthly Cash Flow Plan and it wasn't pretty. With every dollar sign, my heart beat got louder and louder. But this was a reality that needed to be faced. We can no longer go through life in ignorance.

What we discovered, is that like the majority of Americans, we are living on an average of $1500-$2000 a month out of our means. What to do? Cut down, cut down, cut down. On groceries, gas, gifts, entertainment and monthly payments. I know you will make the excuse, "Well I am not in debt and KNOW that I am living within my means." Really? When was the last time you actually tracked your expenses? So you have NO DEBT, but how much do you have SAVED?

Stick to the plan to reach a brighter future. Instant gratification robs you of your retirement, your children out of a paid in full education, your emergency fund, and most of all peace of mind.

Now, I am inviting YOU, yes YOU to take this challenge with me. What do you get out of it?
Money in your pocket!

I will have posts on FREE ACTIVITIES, Food Bargains, and FREE GIFTS from the heart. Join me!

My immediate line of duty is downsizing our monthly grocery bill. We are on an average spending $800-$1000 a month on groceries. Yes on food! Add it up to see how ridiculous that is. We are not celebrities or CEO's, just a middle class American Family.

My goal is $460/month or $115/week. That includes dining out, beverages on the go, and dinners at home.

I started the month of October on a high note, since we had a road trip to Austin and stopped at all the food chains for a burger or taco, etc. Which left me with a budget of $50/week for the remainder of this month.

That being said, here is my FIRST CHALLENGE!

What can you purchase with $50 for an ENTIRE WEEK?
That means 3 meals a day for $7.14/day or $2.38/meal!
Mission Impossible? Maybe or not!

Come back tomorrow to see as I make my list, check out the specials, clip coupons, and plan out my Menu, what my goal is and whether or not I can accomplish it.

In the meantime, if you wish to join along POST A COMMENT or E-mail me. Let's empower one another to live within our means and focus on what's really important.

Self-Absorbed People

2009-10-10T09:59:00.000-07:00

I am currently reading a book on how to raise giving children in a self-absorbed world.

"Teach them how to look through a window and not a mirror."

My question to all of you is:

What type of child are you raising?

Share some tips with all of us for promoting compassion and responsibility in your child.

Crafty Week

2009-09-28T20:43:00.000-07:00

Remember my 1ST Quilt???? Yes, the one I started months and months ago? Well.....here it is! The motivation?
My niece was born three days ago and I had no more excuses.

I was very content with the Pop that it had...I know how much infants are attracted to contrast and colors and thought this would offer both.

I fell in love with the backing just as much....very girlie...don't you think? All in all I calculated 100 woman hours of labor on my first....I pray that I get faster, otherwise I won't be able to make many more.

I would appreciate any tricks and tips from the Pros out there.

After I mailed out my Quilt, I had one more crafty undertaking....my daughter's 1ST Birthday Party. Ladybugs have been a part of her life since she was born, and the madness continues to grow. The theme for her birthday? You guessed it...ladybugs.

However, I wanted to created other points of interest at her party.

We (my son, husband, and I), decorated 12 mini-pots filled with moss and my daughters photos from the past 12 months. "See how she's grown." Not my original idea, although I would love to take all the credit. I found it on the Celebrate Express site that shares Honorable Mentions by Party Themes.

We enjoyed making them while reminiscing how the year just flew by.

I purchased the pots from Michaels for .69 cents each, bag of moss for $2.49, bag of Popsicle sticks for $2.49 and used construction paper and glue to bring it all together. Inexpensive idea with a priceless effect!

School & Bullies

2009-09-19T09:11:00.000-07:00

I was shocked to hear that my 6 year old is already being bullied in 1ST Grade. I was not prepared to hear about it or deal with it just yet. I anticipated those issues in Middle School.

He was best friends with the bully in Kindergarten. Towards the end of the year, this boy decided he no longer wanted to be buddies with my son and "fired" him from the "boys club."

Ethan came home hurt and crying. I told him he did not need friends like that and would have to move on to better choices, not realizing that the problem would persist the following school year.

Prior to the year commencing, Ethan expressed concerns about running into this kid again and was hoping that they were assigned to different classes. Thankfully they were. HOWEVER, they are in recess at the same time.

This past week, this bully and his friends were outside playing "Cops & Robbers." My son did not want to participate, because the teacher did not want them to play games like that outside. They tackled him anyway. Ethan was flustered and managed to get out of their grip. He began to approach his teacher to inform her of what was occurring. The boys ran after him and tackled him once more so that he would not "taddle." This time they were even more aggressive. All day long, they gave my boy dirty looks in school, and Ethan was scared of telling his teacher the truth. We found out the entire story when he got home.

Always take the time to ask your kids how their day was. It's the first question out of my mouth when I pick him up and again during dinner.

How to deal? Do we teach our kids to "stand up for themselves" and teach the bully a lesson or two? Do we tell them to go through the school system and hope they resolve it immediately? Do we tell them to "just ignore the problem?" What do we do?

Bullying affects a child's self esteem because they are dealing with the rejection of their immediate peers. They are in contact with the bully day in and day out. They fear them. Sometimes the situation feels hopeless.

What did we do? Well we taught him all of the above.

First, we spoke to the teacher and expressed our concerns. She promised to speak with the kid's parents and notify them of the current events. She then separated the boys during recess and made sure they had no contact with one another.

Second, we explained that if this bully were to sincerely apologize, he should accept his apology, but still steer clear of such influences, and find friends that respected him equally.

Third, we told Ethan that we were behind him 100%. We knew he would do the right thing and that he can always talk to us and look for support in our family circle. We want him to have confidence in us but most of all Himself.

So, now we wait and see how the remainder of the year will unfold. Ethan is OK going back to school, but you can tell that this issue is in the back of his mind. He is hanging out with other kids that are friendlier, gentler, and more respectful.

I would love to hear from any parent that has dealt with this issue and some insight you are willing to provide.

9/11 Memorial Site in Broomfield, CO

2009-09-12T06:09:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, I felt the urge to take time out of my daily routine and pay tribute to our Nation and those we lost of September 11, 2001. I just discovered by watching the news in the morning, that there is a 9/11 Memorial at the Broomfield County Park, which contains a piece of metal from the World Trade Center. It felt like the perfect place to go.

A Statue of a little girl and police officer comforting one another on that day.

A list of countries that lost citizens on 9/11. It wasn't just a tragedy for the US but for the International Community. Click on image for a closer view of the countries listed.

The numbers of victims.

"Let's Roll" Flight 93 Plaque and a list of the names. Take a moment a pray for the names, because they did everything in their power to make sure no more lives would be ended on 9/11.

The Pentagon

The World Trade Center Plague. On the back is listed the thousands of innocent souls we lost.

Once I approached this Statue I got chocked up and began to cry. It threw me back to that moment when it all came crumbling down. You cannot be here and not be affected by this piece.

This statue is representative of the mood and the heroes of September 11Th. People helping one another through a tragedy. Scared and unsure of the minute by minute moments.

Lance learned something new yesterday. That once in awhile we need to take time out of our lives and pray for our Country.

9/11: My Beloved City & The People Lost

2009-09-10T14:09:00.000-07:00

Where was I on 9/11? Within walking distance of the World Trade Center, visiting friends and family 9 months after leaving NYC.

My best friend was getting married that weekend. My uncle celebrated his birthday the night before. A friend from Charleston was visiting. My friend Michelle's leukemia had been labeled critical.

September 10, 2001 at 10PM. Our friend from Charleston wanted to go out for drinks downtown. Let's go to Windows on the World. We roamed over to the Towers joyously eager to sit down at a renowned restaurant overlooking the city from the 106Th Floor. We tried pushing through the rotating doors, but the Towers were closed. Oh well, maybe tomorrow night.

September 11, 2001 at 8AM. Husband jumped in the shower. He needed to run to his old salon and cut hair for clients that were missing him since we moved in December of 2000. I got on the phone to speak with Make A Wish Foundation who wanted to donate a Laptop to my friend Michelle. The conversation was somber which made me oblivious to my surroundings.

8:45 AM. Husband came running out of the shower while I was on the phone. "Did you hear that? It sounded like a plane just flew over your dad's building and crashed." I thought he was out of his mind. What were the odds of that happening? I chuckled at him and told him to get dressed and head to work.

8:50AM. Ended my phone conversation and turned on NBC's The Today Show. The only image on the screen was a huge gaping black hole in the North Tower. What? How? What was going on? "Kurt, Kurt, come out. You were right." We both watched the TV report not knowing what to make of it. Ran out in the middle of 6Th Avenue and Bleecker Street and felt as though we could reach out to where this horrific event took place. The NY streets were slowing down, as passer bys were looking behind them but still walking towards their intended destination. The subway, work, coffeehouses.......We did not realize it, but we had run out in our jammies and my husband in his boxer shorts. Ran back into my father's building to put on some clothes and grab the camera.

9:00 AM. Snapping away photographs and drawing our own conclusions with the New Yorkers around us. "What a shame. Looks like it was a helicopter. Didn't this happen in NY before to the Empire State Building?"

9:03 AM. As we are frantically clicking away with our camera, we see a second plane heading straight for the South Tower and a GIGANTIC but SILENT ball of fire came shooting out of it. A sudden GASP was heard from hundreds of people that were helplessly watching the events unfold with us. In a matter of seconds, we all were stricken with fear and tears. THIS was NO ACCIDENT!

9:05 AM. Ran back into my father's apartment to watch the news and find out the horrific reality of this warm, clear and sunny sky day, now filled with billowing smoke, and the noise of Jets and Sirens.

9:30 AM. Watched our President, George Bush, in terror, address the nation that we had been "Attacked". A Nation at War. Someone had done this to us intentionally? Was this real? Was I truly alive to witness this?

9:35 AM. I urged my husband to not go anywhere. Tenants from my father's building were running in trying to get a glimpse of the news on our screen and asking what floors were hit. "My friend worked on the 96Th Floor", I heard as my heart sunk knowing that there was no way she survived.

9:43 AM. Pentagon gets hit. More dread and terror filled my limbs. I did not feel safe. I was awaiting for a plane to crash on top of us too, but where else could we go?

9:55 AM. Ran to the roof of the building attempting to get a better view of the Towers from above. I had just purchased my camera, and it had a Zoom that could capture images up close from miles away. Again I snapped away and away documenting this moment. I zoomed closer and closer and my precious, expensive camera dropped out of my hands crashing onto the concrete. "What's wrong?", my husband inquired. "Korn, I just saw a group of four people holding hands and jumping out of the building, " I wailed uncontrollably. That moment I will never erase out of my memory, because at THAT MOMENT this tragedy became very tangible.

10:05 AM. I watched the South Tower turn into dust before my eyes. The soot reached all the way to our street. I cried and cried. How could something so mighty and so representative of our city just give way like that?

10:10 AM. Flight 93 crashes in Pennsylvania. How much can one nation take? How could we ever possibly digest all of this? How could our brains wrap around that our sense of security was diminished forever?

Received a call from my aunt residing on Nassau Street letting us know that she was OK, but that there were people from the Towers running inside her apartment for refuge and asking for water. The dust seeped through all the closed windows.

10:28 AM. The North Tower comes tumbling along. Up until that point we prayed and prayed that at least ONE would be left standing as a sign that somehow we did not completely lose this battle, but that was not meant to be. Kurt and I were in a trance. Could not speak, all we could do was walk the street like zombies with heavy hearts.

The seconds and minutes and hours and days to follow were draining. We treaded the streets lightly with masks on our mouths, delivering canned goods to volunteer stations, looking through posted photographs on fences and walls and parks for a familiar face, listening to Fire Engines and Helicopters and Jets all day long, and not peeling our eyes off the News stations for new developments. This went on for 7 days. We could not return to Salt Lake, and the honest truth was, that an airplane was the LAST thing I wanted to be on anyway.

Our families and co-workers called over and over again until they got through the busy signal to find out that we were all right.

The wedding was cancelled until further notice.

My friend Michelle dying from leukemia, was searching for answers in her hospital bed.

Our friend Sean from Charleston, hugged us tight out of sheer love and comfort that we were together.

When the day came to leave, a deep sense of GUILT filled me. How could I leave my family behind in a time like this? I would go back to Salt Lake City, and they were stuck in this WAR Zone. How could I leave my Beloved City behind? I grew up here. I should stay and volunteer and and cry alongside all the victims.

I boarded a packed plane suspicious of every passenger. "Did they spend too much time in the bathroom? What were they talking about on their cellphone or typing on their computer? Was the passenger on the plane with 5 other suspects?" The list goes on and on. But we landed.

9/11 proved to me that a lovely day could turn into a nightmare in a matter of seconds.

9/11 proved to me that we are not strangers, even in one of the world's most populated cities, we are all connected.

9/11 proved to me that we need to appreciate life and live it to the fullest.

9/11 proved to me that a Fireman's Oath is about protecting others FIRST. While everyone ran out, they ran in.

9/11 proved to me that money means nothing. That day rich people died along with the poor.

9/11 proved to me that we should not take for granted our families before we leave the house, because it might be our last.

9/11 proved to me that All Nations stand against evil as ONE!

9/11 proved to me that the victims on Flight 93 proved what "selfless" truly means and saved other lives in the process.

9/11 proved to me that we Still Live In The Greatest Country in The World where our Freedom of Religion & Beliefs is honored. These terrorists were trying to break that but LOST!!! There is no GOD, I don't care of what Faith you are, that promotes DEATH!

I love this country, I love NYC, I love our everyday heroes (policemen, firemen, doctors, the military), I love our diversity, I love mankind, and most of all I send MY LOVE to the families of ALL the victims that day. Thanks for your strength and dignity.

What Marriage Means To Me

2009-09-09T11:07:00.000-07:00

Today's post is once again inspired by one of my fave blogs Mama Kat.

I have been married for almost 10 years, and the one question my single friends always ask me is, "How do you know when "he's" the "one"?

"I got lucky I suppose." No real formula, just a feeling!

However, after being married for so many years with three children, I do have a formula for what makes a marriage work and what it means to me.

1. Commitment.

2. Security.

3. Friendship. My true best friend is my husband. He understands my ups and downs, my heart, my fears, my strengths, my abilities, my desires, my spiritual being, and everything about me.

4. Compromise. This word carries a negative stigma with it, but it is a positive in my world. It means humbling yourself in order to make your partner happy. A marriage is not about "my needs" "my feelings" "my goals". It's about "ours" which in turn strengthens the "I".

5. Team parenting. Kids will fall through the cracks if mom and dad do not stand tall "together". They rely on consistency and routine. Your children will learn how to respect and treat their own spouse in the future, as an example of how you co-parent and co-exist.

6. Laughter. I love laughing with Kurt. We bring each other to joyous tears all the time. It keeps our spirits light and our bond strong.

7. Tradition. We have maintained our old traditions and enhanced it with our own too. Traditions that are a direct reflexion of our values and priorities in life.

8. Spiritual oneness. We are both of different faiths, but of one spiritual soul. We say "thank yous" at dinnertime and talk about the meaning of God and Faith and Religion on a regular basis. We agree to disagree while embracing the common good that is present in both our hearts.

9. Commonality. We discuss our common goals as a family and as a couple at least monthly. We develop a plan that is accommodating to everyone and will ultimately get us to the finish line. We stumble along the way, but always check back in with one another to keep us on track.

10. Freedom. Freedom to be who I am essentially without being judged. Freedom to pursue interests with the platform of my husband. Freedom to feel beautiful in my own skin. Freedom to feel wanted and needed and not lonely.

These are the 10 Things that capture the essence of a marriage for me. Every couple has their individual "secret" to a lasting marriage. We are all unique in what keeps us feeling loved and validated.

Back To School

2009-08-23T18:52:00.000-07:00

Hello fellow friends and bloggers,

Tomorrow both my sons start school, thus causing me to blog less. They need their mommy and I need them to be 100% effective in and after school. No matter how much I lie to myself that this blog does not take that much time, it does. I am always thinking of new things to post about. I am on the computer at night, when I should be watching a movie with my husband or going to bed at a decent time to be a restful mom in the morning.

Blogging can be addictive, just like Facebook and Twitter and all Internet venues. I must be "present" for my family "first" otherwise the "purpose" for this blog is a lie. And that folks is as honest as I can be.

So, I am wishing ALL the parents a successful back to school year.....and I will be posting on the weekends only. Do come back......

With sincerity,

Corn

Birthday: Part II

2009-08-18T21:17:00.000-07:00

After an exhilarating day of Zip lining and
goofing around with my friends, we headed home.

I walked in my house and saw people popping out of my walls, "SURPRISE".

What?

My friends were all at my house to greet me at the door.

In that moment, I felt as though I could die today,
and all was good in my world.

My husband planned it four days in advance and
I was TRULY surprised.

Everyone parked on the block behind my house.
No clues left behind.
No need to fake the smile or the tears.
It was all genuine and all so wonderful!

We had to improvise with an "autumn pear" candle. Thank God I did not have to blow out 34 of them.

Here is a special Thanks to all the people that showed up and made it not just a day about me, but a day about loyal friendships, family, togetherness, and love! I appreciate all of you.

Korn

Ethan

Lance

Kate

Kat

Mirela

Chim

Krystal

Klea

Joni

Pete

Emily

Dean

Xandra

Gregory

Christine

Eric

Wesley

Owen

Sasha

Eric

Tyler

Travis

Rebecca

Avenicio

Hope

The Perfect Birthday

2009-08-17T21:17:00.001-07:00

There are days, that words do not do it justice! My 34TH Birthday was one of those days. To state that it was a fun or adventurous or moving birthday, would rob it of the true magic that I experienced. SO instead I will post lots of pictures and videos (Today & Tomorrow) and you can feel it for yourself.

The 4 Eagle Ranch does not only offer Zip lining, but serenity too.
Open fields, horses, goats, hens, cats, dogs, and the good ole' southern cookin'. The trip would not have been as fun if it wasn't for our sarcastic tour guides who made sure NOT to alleviate our concerns.

Click on collage to see the images up close!

We spent 2 1/2 hours going down 6 different Zip lines.
We started off on a Zip line that was 100 ft. long, 80 feet off the ground doing anywhere between 12-18 mph.
We ended it on a 1000 ft. long line, going 33-40 mph and
approximately 180 ft off the ground.

The day did not end there!
Come back tomorrow for the finale to my most memorable day!

Birthday Adventure

2009-08-14T07:48:00.000-07:00

The time has arrived!!! In two days, for my 34Th Birthday, I will be hanging on REALLY tight, eyes closed, stomach in my throat, as I breeze on by on a really thin line. Am I going through a mid-life crisis?

I mean I am a mother of three, why am I doing this?

Isn't waking up to three unpredictable children every morning enough excitement?

The truth is I am done walking through life analyzing every single move that sounds terrifying to me.

I am relinquishing my control to a Higher Power,
and just having fun!

I need to do this because it will open up doors to other riveting opportunities, and who knows, I might become an adrenaline junkie. My favorite expression is:

"It's not the years in your life, it's the life in your years."

I just finished reading a book called "Curiosity". It talks about how seeking out new things in your life, forces you to live in the present and in the process enriches your days.

So that is my new philosophy, is living with curiosity. Observing and always asking questions and learning something new. Life is too short to not take advantage of the abundance that is provided to us.

Come back next week to see the results and thanks for voting on my New Adventure: Ziplining!

Au Revoir!

Mama Kat's Writer's Workshop

2009-08-13T05:33:00.000-07:00

The Prompt: A God Moment

One night, my mom's cancer placed her in excruciating pain. She cried and cried all night long in between periods of vomiting from the chemotherapy. It was a lot for me to withstand at 14 years old and not sure what I could do. I felt so helpless.

The disease was in its final stages and that evening she was unable to move from her aching bones, which is why she was hollering all night. I loved her more than I loved myself and was dying inside. What could I do? The doctors were out of answers and out of cures. Where could I turn for some solace and solutions?

It was midnight as I walked into our mini-kitchen in Queens and sat by the window. Outside was completely still and quiet. I placed my hands together to pray. My hands were so tightly wound out of the sheer desperation for my mother's well being. In that moment, I prayed with all of my heart, my soul, my every ounce of being that I could muster up. I never prayed with the same intensity before or since.

"God, please, I am going to ask for this one favor. I know I am not perfect and maybe do not deserve to have my prayers answered, but this is so important to me and if you help, I will be forever compliant to you."

Tears streamed down my face uncontrollably as I whispered those words. I couldn't stop crying as my nose became instantly runny too.

"God, please, I know my mother is dying, but please give her a break at least for one day. Please make her experience a day of happiness and comfort. Please Lord, she is such a kind and loving mother. I may not deserve your mercy, but she does. She has faith in you and is so good to everyone. Please help her go to sleep tonight and wake up with ease in the morning."

I stayed by that window for a good hour repeating that prayer over and over again. The word please had never sounded and felt as sincere as it did in that moment.

I went to bed with swollen eyes. I tried to fall asleep, but all I heard was my mother's agony and my heart beating out of my chest from the anxiety it was feeling.

Around 3 AM there was finally silence and I managed to close my eyes. My dad left for work early and I did not even hear him leave.

I woke up before my mom, prepared her breakfast, cleaned her bowl by her bedside, and got a fresh robe ready for her to wear.

My mother came out and her cheeks looked like there was a sign of life in them. She said "Good Morning" and it was with a smile. She could walk, even though the night before she could not even approach the bathroom without the support from me and my father.

In that moment, I was truly happy. Not the kind of happy that we associate with, but the happy that is of spiritual multitudes, that fills every cell in your body with joy. The kind of happy that is euphoric. The kind that lifts your feet off the floor as you are floating about. The kind of happy that is not of this Earth.

I made tea and we sat around just talking. She told me that after she died, she wanted to be mummified and placed in the corner of our living room to scare my father's future girlfriends. I laughed while trying to figure out how to make that happen. Who would provide such a service?

I made her favorite Spinach Soup for lunch and we talked about life, boyfriends, school, values, love, and most of all her concern to leave me at such an impressionable age. As she talked, I admired her soft skin, warm eyes, and motherly hands that I had grown to depend on and was going to miss insensibly.

It was a wonderful day. One that I knew only God had provided to the both of us to prepare for the inevitable. I will never forget that moment or the lessons that came out of it, which still rules my decision making to this day. I had her for 14 years of my life, but she taught me enough to last me for 100.

The night I prayed, I understood for the first time about being able to "move mountains" when you have Faith. Faith and the desire for an event to take place. I pray every night, but it never feels as genuine as it did then and that's why it probably was one of the few times, that I was witness to a Miracle.

Locks Of Love: Update

2009-08-12T07:10:00.001-07:00

Recently my niece Amber, donated her gorgeous locks to Locks of Love. Locks of Love donates hair to children with cancer who need wigs but cannot afford them. They use your donated hair to customize the hair color and hair style.

Click here to view guidelines for donations.

The day Amber donated her hair, I received this photograph on my cell phone with a message stating how proud she was to help another child in need. We are proud of you too Amber.

It's traumatizing enough for children to face a terminal illness, without the constant reminder in the mirror.

My hair has grown 4 inches since my first haircut on January 22ND. It will take approximately two years for it to grow to the desired length for a donation. In the meantime, I just sit back and let mother nature do its thing. Donating hair is probably one of the most effortless yet meaningful tasks you can achieve.

You have been blessed with a bounty of hair, now pay it forward, and allow a little girl with cancer to smile when she looks at herself with long, shimmering locks that she can brush and style daily.

Hat Follow-Up

2009-08-12T07:02:00.001-07:00

I realized that I could not have a Hat Article without including my two biggest inspirations, my nieces Bella and Amber. Not only do I want their hats, but their entire wardrobe too. Love you girls!

If you have a hat that you would like me to post on my site, please email me a photo at mommycorn@gmail.com. Let's start a Hat Movement and inspire others to looks Marvelous too.

If You Want To Get Ahead, Then Get A Hat

2009-08-10T18:44:00.000-07:00

HATS HATS HATS!

The world could never produce too many HATS......
wisdom according to Corn.
My icons, Audrey Hepburn & Jackie-O set the stage for elegant hats.

A hat draws attention and makes a stronger impression than any other accessory.

My fondest memories of shopping as a young girl, was trying on straw hats, silk hats, felt hats, you name it, and executing my British Accent while asking my mother what she thought.

With a Hat you can escape to a different time and place. So what happened to them?

I rarely see anyone walking down the street with my favorite fashion statement. Must we reside at the Buckingham Palace to wear something so Fabulous? Must we star in Sex and the City to sport a new look?

What must we do to celebrate a tradition that dates back centuries and centuries ago?

In the meantime, my dear Katherine and I, will present our own Royal sense of style on Denver Boulevard.

P/T Vegetarian

2009-08-09T21:05:00.000-07:00

I promised to inspire some of you to become Part Time Vegetarians by posting recipes. Some people believe that you are either Vegetarian or Not. My goal is to cut down on meat 5 days out of the week for my health and the environment. So if you prefer, you can call me a Part Time Carnivore.

My efforts were mentioned on Blogher which made me thrilled.

I have an obsession with pancakes, because the variations are endless. This week, I made Blueberry Pancakes (my favorite). I like to place each blueberry individually while the batter is cooking in the pan for that "perfect" effect and to guarantee that there is a plump blueberry in every bite.

Why stop there? After the Blueberry Pancake is on your plate, top it off with Trader Joe's Wild Maine Blueberry Fruit Sauce. You can purchase an 8 oz. bottle for $2.99 and I promise you will not regret it.

For Lunch I cooked Zucchini Primavera. We planted zucchini (part of the squash/pumpkin family) this summer and they grow in abundance. We pick out at least 3 medium sized ones daily. What to do besides Zucchini Bread or Zucchini Lasagna? Zucchini Primavera.

Saute zucchini with garlic, fresh tomatoes, and peas in olive oil for approximately 5 minutes. Add a tablespoon of white wine & basil along with salt and pepper. Serve on a plate with freshly grated Parmesan.

Cook with love and eat with joy!

The Julie/Julia Project: Review Is In

2009-08-07T22:44:00.000-07:00

I was so anxious for Friday, August 7Th to arrive so that I could run to the theater and see the Julie/Julia movie. I recall the first time I saw the preview for it and thinking this movie was made for ME. OK, I am being a tad selfish, because I can guarantee that if you are a blogger yourself or a foodie this movie was made for you too.

I loved it! It met all my expectations. I could relate to everything.

I could relate to being 30 something and not sure where my life is headed.

I could relate to being in culinary school and how impossible it felt just to prove yourself.

I could relate to taking on tasks that I was never able to complete. For example, 1 YR in college for Drama, then 1 Year for Fashion, and finally 1 Year for Culinary. The only thing I was able to ever complete was a 9 month pregnancy and the birthing process. And let's not forget the epidural that made it all possible.

I could relate to the passion I have for writing.

I could relate to how exciting it is when you get that First Comment on your blog from someone other than a family member or personal friend.

I could relate being married to a supportive husband who makes all of this insanity possible and keeps me moving forward.

And I could relate to looking at role models that have inspired me to be something MORE.

Watching the movie, felt like a personal experience. I viewed Julie the way she viewed Julia. Like we had an unspeakable connection, my own imaginary friend.

I forgot the entire time that I was watching Meryl Streep play Julia Child. She was Julia Child. I hope one day they make a movie about Julia Child in its entirety, because she was a remarkable woman.

The movie was witty, inspirational, fun, yummy, touching!

It's Humane

2009-08-07T09:01:00.000-07:00

Meet our new family member Ferris. We adopted him from the Humane Society two weeks ago.

We love all the odd little markings on him. From one black paw, to his black nose, to his oddball personality.

The boys adore him. Ferris picked them out the instant they walked into the shelter. It was destiny.

A Moment of Remembrance

2009-08-06T08:09:00.000-07:00

On August 6, 1945 "Little Boy" (an atomic bomb) was dropped over Hiroshima, Japan. Three days later, "Fat Boy" went down with the same vengeance over Nagasaki, Japan.

The death toll exceeding 180,000 innocent Japanese.

Today, we pay our respects to the victims and to World Peace.

I asked my boys what Peace meant to each of them and these videos are the result.

After the devastation in Japan, President Truman continued testing nuclear weapons.

Japan has since built the Hiroshima Peace Park and is determined to keep the flame burning until the

World rids itself of all Nuclear destruction.

How far fetched of an idea is that? That all depends on our willingness to let go of power and embrace equality.

The Peace sign was created by a man, Gerald Holtom, who wanted to provide a symbol for marchers that represented Nuclear Disarmament.....click here to view a diagram of its origins.

Here are a few of my photographs that I was able to capture of our Peace symbol.

What does peace mean to you? How do you go about your daily life to ensure it?

JOIN ME IN PEACE

2009-08-05T07:33:00.000-07:00

August 6Th marks the 64TH year since Harry Truman ordered an atomic bomb called "Little Boy" to get dropped on Hiroshima, Japan killing over 140,000 innocent lives. Three days later, he dropped a second bomb killing 80,000 more. The Hiroshima Peace Memorial Park is dedicated to World Peace and the desire to rid our lives of nuclear weapons forever.

This year I am asking all my fellow bloggers to dedicate their blog on August 6TH to Peace. Create your post with images of peace, words of peace, inspirations of peace, and ideas of peace. Lets all link to one another so we can spread the word, that WAR is not an absolute of our existence. If you do not have your own blog,

Birthday Wishes

2009-08-01T08:44:00.001-07:00

Happy Birthday Korn!

Tomorrow my husband celebrates his 39Th Birthday!

Another year blessed to share my life with him.

He is my rock, my most avid supporter, my best friend, my joy,

and definitely my soul mate.

Thanks for being a most devoted dad who is also a lot of fun.

Thanks for teaching the boys how to fish, build transformers,

inspire them to become techie fanatics,

to love and have respect for their family, and for always

expecting only the best from them.

Thank you for teaching our daughter what it means to be a great man!

We love you and wish you the most ROCKIN Birthday EVER.

MAKE IT CLEAR

2009-07-31T08:30:00.000-07:00

I just got back from NY with knots in my stomach and a very somber disposition.

The one thing that I would like to address in this post is, plan for your death. I know that sounds morbid, but one of the realities of life is that we will ALL say goodbye no matter how young or how old.

My uncle only had his brothers, sister, and nieces & nephews that truly took care of him. He did not have an immediate family member that he shared his thoughts on death or how he would like to be taken care of once gone. It left us playing guessing games and it left my family with a $22,000 bill out of the blue to pay for. We wanted him to have a most beautiful viewing and burial, so all the siblings banned together and paid for the services.

The experience started all of us talking about what "should have been done" , and what we all need to do to prepare for ourselves.

Here are the following suggestions:

Draw up a will. Especially imperative if you have children and want them to go to the proper custodians should you pass away. Also determine who will be in charge of "pulling the plug" should you be hospitalized and on life support.
Talk to someone you ABSOLUTELY trust about what you would like to have done. Do you want to be buried or cremated? How would you like the service to be performed and how will it be paid for?
Make sure that you create a LIFE INSURANCE policy for family members to help cover the costs.
Create a WISH LIST for your belongings. State the items that you would like to give away to various people, so that it does not create conflict once you are gone.
Write your farewell. I sat down and wrote letters to my children and husband expressing my feelings, my hopes and aspirations for their future, and how they have enriched my life. I saw a mom on Oprah one time that left a video diary for her kids once she found out she had terminal cancer, so that they understood her better as well as give them guidance.

I know this is not an easy topic and one that you may ignore, but nothing is tougher on loved ones when they simply DON"T KNOW. Take all the guessing games out, so that they can focus on grieving their loss and supporting one another.

Take some time and consider what you can do to prepare. The truth is once we are gone, we don't need to pick up the pieces, our family and friends do. Let's honor them by giving them all the answers ahead of time.

FAREWELL DEAR UNCLE

2009-07-24T10:49:00.000-07:00

I will not be blogging for the next 5 days as I am off to NY for my uncle's funeral. He passed away this morning and I will miss him dearly. He always treated me like his daughter.

Goodbye Nelu!!!! We will all miss your presence and tender heart.

DREAM BIG

2009-07-23T19:50:00.000-07:00

I just arrived back from Portland. I took a trip with my dear Kate to meet my husband's cousins & their children for the first time and to reunite with their parents, Aunt Carol & Uncle Marv. Family ties are as important to me as breathing, thanks to my mother's legacy, and it was time for all of us to get acquainted.

I will publish several posts to cover my trip, but for now I will start backwards.

On the plane ride back to Denver, I couldn't stop thinking about how the entire family has accomplished so much. From running marathons, to earning their college degrees, to a comfortable retirement and working from home. There was plenty to be inspired by.

I went there to bond with family, which we did, but also flew home contemplating my own destiny.

Why have I never followed through with my own education? What am I waiting for when it comes to saving money for my retirement? What do I want to do with my life? What can I do to be a further example for my own children? Why am I not making the most of my abilities? The list goes on and on, but the result was the same, I need to make a change. A change for the better and a change for my future.

Is 34 years old too old to start over again? Not if you have 60 more years of life. And even if you don't, how can pursuing your dreams and a secure retirement be any worse than hating the job you show up for day in and day out?

I sat down and listed my interests while infusing it with education requirements and potential salaries. I came up with 5 choices........you must go down to the bottom of the page to view them.

In the meantime, thank you.................

Aunt Carol

Uncle Marv

Cousin Chris

Cousin Brishan

and Cousin Larissa............

for inspiring me to take on a new venture to a more meaningful and successful life.

HELP ME DECIDE ON ONE OF THE FOLLOWING OPTIONS.

That's right, you get to vote and Post Your Comment on what degree I should pursue, just like you voted on my Zipling (which will take place next month). I love all 5 and I need your help.....

Will it be.......................

A. Dietician/Nutritionist

B. Film Editor

C. Photographer

D. Food Scientist

E. Journalism

I look forward to your vote and your insight!!!!

Part-Time Vegetarian

2009-07-17T09:21:00.001-07:00

As of last week, I made a commitment to myself to become a P/T vegetarian for the sake of my health and the environment.

What does P/T mean? 5 Days out of the week vegetarian.

I am replacing regular milk with goat milk because it is much more beneficial. Giving up red meats and cutting down on fatty cheeses and dairy products. I will be sharing my vegetarian dishes with you.

The first one is Chocolaty Pancakes.
All you need to do is add 5 tablespoons of sifted cocoa to your favorite Pancake Mix or Pancake recipe. I topped my pancakes with sliced strawberries and 100% Maple Syrup. For added health benefit you can add a 1/2 cup of oats to the mix.

Bon appetite!

Daily Clicks

2009-07-17T09:21:00.000-07:00

Dragonflies in my garden

The Idea Guy

2009-07-16T08:43:00.000-07:00

OK, while driving to Utah at 3 AM, Kurt & I were talking about him contributing to my blog. He came up with the "Idea Guy". Again I am stressing that it was 3 AM and we had been driving for quite a few hours.

Who is the Idea Guy? My husband and his brilliant concepts. Sometimes intuitive sometimes not so bright. Either way I promised him that I would blog his "ideas" without prejudice.

So, what is his first statement to the Blog World? Now remember take everything with a grain of salt.......

"Relationships are like a leaky hose. You patch one hole and another one appears. No matter how much water you pump into that hose, you'll have a leak."

Fave Links

2009-07-16T08:39:00.000-07:00

The Good Cook Club mailed me my books along with a plastic envelope and the title Cell Phones for Soldiers. Today that is my fave link http://www.cellphonesforsoldiers.com/ . Recycle your cell phone through this site and they will use the proceeds to purchase prepaid calling cards for our American troops to call home.

Don't let that phone take up extra space in your home, recycle it and do something special to connect a soldier with his/her family member.

Throwing A Fun Luau

2009-07-14T08:41:00.000-07:00

Over the weekend we attended Joni and Dennis' 6Th Annual Luau Celebration. They started the tradition as a way to celebrate a multitude of birthdays and it was so successful that they have been doing it for 6 years now.

What makes it so great?

The setting for one. The music. The hosts.
People that come from near and far.
Family, friends, co-workers, hairdressers.
From Baltimore, California, Chicago, Knoxville.

The hit every year is Dennis' fruit soaked Vodka.
It first began with strawberries and this year it was pineapple and by far his best concoction yet. The vodka took on the sweet flavor of the pineapple and was so easy to drink. The pineapple on the other hand took on the flavor of the vodka and was near impossible to eat.....unless you like Vodka that is.

The ribs are also the hit of the Party. The food is catered by our friends and theirs that own a restaurant and is always soooooo tasty. Never disappoints.

We are always up for a good time and we had willing
participants at our table. The little two year old thought we were
acting a tad immature ;)

I included a video of my little Miss Kate just cruisin' to the music.
Check it out!

Happy summer and this year think of starting your own tradition!

Southern Utah: Capitol Reef & Goblin Valley

2009-07-13T08:25:00.000-07:00

Southern Utah is truly Mother Nature's Blessing!
It is a playground for adults and children alike.
We were so thrilled to spend our last day at the
Capitol Reef and Goblin Valley before heading back home.

Enjoy our tour!

One of the largest Cottonwood Trees we have ever seen!

The boys amused by the intensity of their echoes.

We found a little lizard friend that ran around with us.

Mud tiles!

Now off to Goblin Valley. The last trip my husband took was in his teens and was nostalgic at the thought of being back there. He could not stop bragging until we arrived.

Welcome Alice In Wonderland to a place filled with Giant Mushrooms made of red rock.

Ethan and Lance were off! What "rocks" about this place is that your kids have free range of the entire park. So much sand and soft landings that there is no need to worry, just to allow them to have a grand ole' time.

Even Kate was brave enough to climb on her own ;)

I cannot put into words how amazing Goblin Valley is. We had a blast!
Great place for Hide and Seek!

People of ALL ages would enjoy it.

Utah: Loa

2009-07-10T08:39:00.001-07:00

We finally made it to Loa. My small town destination.

So, what is in Loa?

One of the smallest Town Halls I have ever seen.

Sheep that are not used to visitors.

Open meadows and glistening streams.

Barns and tractors

All the makings for a peaceful day and appreciation of the simpler things in life.

While Loa is a small town, it is the Epicenter for Wayne County. The elementary school, shopping, and all activities take place here.
Don't underestimate a mini-destination, it too serves its purpose.

I chose the location because of its population, later to discover that it is next to the Capitol Reef National Park and Goblin Valley. What a bonus!! Life does not hand you opportunities by accident.

Wayne County is made up of a few small towns one of them
called Bicknell.
What's in Bicknell?

I was beside myself when I heard of the Pickle & Pinto Bean Pie.
How perfect! I mean sounds kind of nasty, but what a great topic for my blog.I wanted to be your personal guinea pig and try this and report about it.

Mrs. Ekker is a famous Pie Winner and she has sold her place since, but they have remained true to her recipes which made her famous.

Opened my mouth and had the first bite trying to envision what pickles or pinto beans would taste like with a "spoonful of sugar" and some whip cream. I guess anything with whip cream works, right?

Dove in and WOW this is delicious. Very reminiscent of the perfect Pumpkin Pie with all the seasonings; nutmeg,cinnamon, etc. I loved it!!!

The pickles in the pie were similar to lime in a cake that gives it just the correct amount of tartness. You might think I'm crazy, but I could see how this place stays so busy.

Also ate the best Cod Sandwich, and I have eaten in a lot of places. I walked away feeling quite cheery and satisfyingly full. I told Kurt how Sunglow exceeded my expectations and how glad I was to stop by.

Afterwards we retreated at our B&B, The Muley Twist Inn.
Rocked in our rocking chairs with the children in our laps watching the Full Orange tint Moon and star filled sky.

Come back tomorrow to read about our last adventure before heading back to Colorado.The Capitol Reef and Goblin Valley.

And don't forget to leave comments in order to earn your Blog Merits towards my Giveaway.

Happy Birthday

2009-07-10T08:31:00.000-07:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY GRANDPA!

Utah: Fairview

2009-07-09T10:47:00.000-07:00

After leaving Centerville, we took a drive on the wide open road (HWY 89) on our way to discover one of the smallest towns in Utah called Loa.

Before reaching our destination we had to stop for the kids to use the potty. We stopped in Fairview, Utah (completely unplanned) and just happened to park our car in front of a Museum.

On the outside all we saw was a yard full of old wagons and machinery. The vines and greenery hid two entrances to the museum and we decided to go in and check it out.

What we saw inside was so magnificent and educational and fun for the kids.

I only posted a few photographs because I think I snapped about 200 inside.

Aren't you glad our kids do not have to eat in these chairs?
The first walkers were even scarier looking.
So glad for the new safety features.
And yet the infants all survived back then too.

Scale

I took a pic of this Quilt because the sign says that it took 120,000 stitches to make
which I found fascinating!

How would you like to get your hair permed with this baby?

Phone switchboard

Food choppers have definitely come down in size since then.
Thank you Cuisinart!

Being the 4Th of July weekend I was moved by this sculpture of one of the greatest Presidents, Abraham Lincoln.

We spent over an hour at the Museum and the boys loved it so much that they

wanted us to stop in every town and go to one.
If you are ever in town, do stop by. I guarantee you will not be disappointed.
Such a wonderful hidden treasure.

After Fairview we drove through Manti, Utah and at the end of a barren road stood this fort that reminded me of the Windsor Palace in England (not identical, but just as grand).
This is the Mormon Temple in Manti and truly a marvelous structure with colorful flowers and crisp green trees surrounding it. Come back tomorrow to see what finally happens when we arrive in Loa, population 524.

Daily Clicks

2009-07-09T10:30:00.000-07:00

After 4 Quilting Classes this is what my Card Quilt is beginning to look like. Still missing the Border, Binding, Backing, and the Quilting. Next class in two weeks, wish it was tomorrow.

I am attending a sewing & quilting EXPO this weekend. Be sure to come back for more details on Monday.

Utah: The Parade

2009-07-08T08:39:00.000-07:00

We are back from an eventful week in Utah. So much to post. I decided the first post should be the Centerville 4Th of July Parade.

The kids had a blast between all the Eye Candy and regular candy thrown from all the classic cars passing by. Kate was being tossed around and smooched by everyone and anyone, including Auntie Shelli (below), Grandma, and Michelle (our new friend).

The Patriotism was evident at every step of the way between the American Flags in front of the homes, to the Jets flying above, to our troops marching in the street while the people stood up and cheered for them.

These hometown parades definitely captured my heart, because you are on the sidewalk making conversation with the residents, children playing together, and the crowds are well maintained. We had a fun time and the pictures below speak for themselves.

Afterwards, we reunited with friends and had a party that went til Midnight. Good times! And beautiful views. Utah really is a most breathtaking state.

The American Blessing

2009-07-05T08:42:00.000-07:00

The 4Th of July is an emotional time for me. A time of pride, gratitude, and sheer relief that my father brought me to this land.

I was born in Romania, and even though I left as a young child (8 years old) I remember all too well about my life in a communist country. I remember how we were terrified to speak our minds because we could be arrested. I remember only two hours of electricity and two hours of warm water a day. I remember standing in lines for an eternity just to purchase some meat or bread. I remember TV only on the weekends and a choice of Channel 1 or Channel 2. I remember not having a choice in the line of work you did.

While those experiences were suppressive and terrifying, it gave me an appreciation for the United State of America that most children took and still take for granted. I cannot look at a Flag or hear the National Anthem without my eyes instantly welling up with tears. I do not believe in War much, but I am so honored and proud of our soldiers.

I love our country for the quality and the possibility of our lives. It may not be perfect, but it's the most accommodating nation in the world.

On Wednesday, I will post photographs of the Parade that we attended in Utah and the spirit of the 4Th that was felt by children and adults alike.

365: Fave Links

2009-07-02T08:40:00.000-07:00

Today's link, I read about in People Magazine while standing in the grocery check line yesterday afternoon. The link is http://www.parklandburncamp.com/ . Camp I-Thonka-Chi provides a caring and safe environment for children ages 6-18 years old that have been burned. At the camp, they have the opportunity to meet other burned peers and to discuss their challenges in life while building their self-esteem.

The camp was started by the Parkland Health & Hospital System and is located in Meridian, Texas, 85 miles Southwest of Dallas. The camp is run strictly on Donations and Volunteers.

I would love to start a fundraiser for the camp, just haven't decided HOW yet. I am open to any ideas.

365: Daily Clicks

2009-07-02T08:38:00.000-07:00

365: Misc. News

2009-07-02T08:32:00.000-07:00

We are taking off for Salt Lake City tonight. Going to spend the 4Th of July with grandma. Anticipation for the Parade, the nursery 50% OFF SALE, the quilt stores, baking, bonding with family, and this year we are going to visit a town called Loa, Utah, another new feature of my blog.

While traveling I will visit unknown towns with small populations. This time around we will be taking a tour of Loa, Utah (named after a Hawaiian destination by a Mormon missionary), with a population of 524 at an elevation of 7,045 ft. Please join me next Wednesday with the full details.

365: Fave Links

2009-07-01T09:12:00.000-07:00

I was so excited to find this next link and share it with my Quilting, Sewing, Designing Community. The link is http://www.spoonflower.com/ . On Spoonflower you can design your own fabric by uploading a photo or image. The design can then be edited by changing the exposure, weight of fabric, size, and adding features from the site. The opportunities are endless as long as your imagination is broad.

Spoonflower.com also holds a weekly fabric design contest that you can vote. This weeks winner was from Portland for the "Happy Flower Vines" print. Everyone who visits the link can order the winning pattern for a limited time.

The price varies btwn $18-$32 yard (ouch, I know), but it can be something special you treat yourself to for a special project.

365: Daily Clicks

2009-07-01T08:19:00.001-07:00

The Mischievous Brothers

I think its time I purchase some sticker books

365: Fave Links

2009-06-30T09:32:00.000-07:00

Today's fave link is www.whichbook.net. A free website that will provide titles and synopsis of books based on your own criteria. You can choose the mood (happy, sad, mysterious, etc.), the gender (male/female), the age, setting, plot, and then click Search.

Now you can go to the library or book store and ask for the exact Title instead of roaming the isles endlessly.

365: Daily Clicks

2009-06-30T09:28:00.001-07:00

Now 9 months old

and in the spirit for her first

4th of July Celebration

365: Favorite Links

2009-06-29T09:11:00.000-07:00

I am starting a new feature on my blog called Favorite Links. I will be posting some of my favorite sites that I have read about or discovered on my own that serves a purpose.

If there is a link that you would like to nominate, please e-mail me and I will feature it on my next Favorite Links entry.

This week we have a site I read about in Star Magazine at my husband's salon.

The site is www.handmedowns.com. Most moms shop at second hand stores in their area, like I do, and this is an additional source online. Once in awhile, celebrities will hold an auction, and you can purchase their toys, clothing, accessories, etc. Imagine your little girl wearing a hand me down from Suri Cruise (if she has an auction that is)? Some of the known celebrity moms that have held auctions are Angelina Jolie and Gwen Stefani.

At handmedowns.com you can also donate your items to charity. In addition to Baby Stuff, they sell adult clothing, have job postings, vacation rentals, childcare, and so much more.

Please take the time to check it out and if you have a nominee e-mail me at mommycorn@gmail.com.

My Life In Ruins

2009-06-26T22:12:00.000-07:00

In my original post I asked for your votes to review a movie that could/could not wait for DVD, so that you do not spend your money at the Movie Theater during the recession.

I received two votes for "My Life In Ruins". I grabbed my friend Sasha, who was giddy to give me a drive test in her new Nissan, to the movie with me for a 9:20PM showing at The Landmark in Greenwood Village. I heard that it was a new movie theater in the DTC area with all the amenities. The theater has actually been in existance since 2007, but word has not completely hit the ears of Denver.

Entering the Landmark, you feel as though you have stepped into the Lounge of a 4 Star Hotel. Purchased our $12 tickets (includes all you can eat Popcorn & Sodas).

We arrived early and were drawn to the Deluxe bar area slightly to the right hand side of the Entry Door. I had a lovely glass of Penfolds Shiraz. We sat around and caught up on our lives as the tragic news of Farrah Fawcett and Michael Jackson's deaths played in the background on a flat screen TV aired on 20/20. The events of our lives, including the gloomy weather and sad celebrity outcomes was enough to bring anyone down, but I was looking forward to a slapstick comedy to lift our spirits.

We sat down in the lush seats with 10 other pedestrians starving for laughter and awaiting anxiously for the movie to begin. The movie opened up with breathtaking views of Santorini, Greece and, already I was homesick for a country I am not a native of.

Georgia (Nia Vardalos), a teacher who became a tourist guide for Pangloss Tours, yearns to teach the tourists about the architecture and history of Greece vs. the mindless tourism activities such as, shopping for souvenirs and eating ice cream. Her competition is Nikko, the lively tour guide who gives the tourists the cheap thrills they are seeking.

Georgia is in Group B with the rundown bus and accommodations and Nikko is Group A with all the desired ins and outs. Georgia has lost her kefi (Greek for "spirit" "mojo") and is a real drag to her group. She rediscovers the small joys of this country she moved to, for a man, by being "open" to all the possibilities.

The movie started off slow and I was anticipating the shift that would turn this movie into "I peed my pants" moment that Julia Roberts experiences at the Opera in Pretty Woman. Unfortunately, the Opera would have been a lot more bearable than the dialogue and pace of this flick. Maria, Georgia's boss in the movie, adequately states, "You're not funny, stop trying." I felt that sentiment over and over again over the dull 1 hour that I managed to view the movie. I kept falling in and out of sleep several times, and it wasn't because of the time.

Folks, I would not even recommend this movie for DVD.....the Redbox $1 is still too much. If you are absolutely curious wait to get it on their Free Wednesdays promotion. The setting and cast had potential for another Nia Vardalos classic, but fell short every step of the way.

We got up and left before the movie ended, which I have not done in 12 years, and refused to leave without some sort of compensation for my time and broken expectations. I approached the manager, and requested vouchers to a free showing next time around. He obliged without hesitation.

I hope this will help save your money and time from a BORING and NO CHEMISTRY CAST movie in June.

Please save me in July by Posting Your Votes for something a little more worthwhile.

KIDS' DAY

2009-06-22T22:51:00.000-07:00

Today I am sharing all things KIDS!

Kate loves Mama's Double Chocolate Muffins early in the morning.

Just because it's summer doesn't mean your kids brain has to fry in the Sun.

Keep them motivated by doing homework and crafts together.

I took this book out from the library, because Ethan is Dinosaur frantic.
We started cartooning together last year and had a blast.
I simply knew he would "flip" over this illustration guide.

We are best at stick figures, so a step-by-step book was perfect for us.

Have fun with it! Art is about interpretation not an exact science.

Artists can either bring the image to life, or they can be a little more "Abstract", like us. Encourage your children to let go of their fears of drawing and just express
themselves the way they know how.

Ethan's interpretation...........

My interpretation...........

We bonded and had a good hour of drawing various Dinosaurs, from T-Rex to the Saber toothed tiger.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY AVENICIO!!!!

You are looking at a picture of a boy who is going to take us into the next millennium with a Genius Invention. It is inspirational the way the mind and curiosity of this 11 year old works.He's taught me about ladybugs, sugar crystals, spiders, geckos, and the list goes on and on. I cannot begin to remember half of them, I just know that he is brilliant.

I am so in love with quilting and the idea that I can create whatever my little heart desires,that I have lined up 6 different projects for myself.
I took the boys on a little scavenger hunt through the quilt shop
and gave them free range to choose a fabric for their own quilt.

Lance chose this lively snake pattern.

Ethan went for the lizards!
He begged me to teach him how to quilt and has been
a huge help to me while sewing.
They were so enthusiastic at the store.

I found this soft pastel fabric that I will be using in a

Yellow Brick Road quilt pattern for my niece to be in September.

Last but not least, I finally had the chance to Shadow a Volunteer at Children's Hospital tonight. It was a slow night in the playroom, but such a treat to meet two girls in their early twenties with such humble personalities, who wanted to volunteer on their nights off, instead of watching mindless television at home. They each have full time jobs,in full time relationships, beautiful, athletic, intelligent, and caring. It was refreshing to see the capable hands of our future generation.

Feature Film Fridays

2009-06-19T20:45:00.000-07:00

Times are rough during a recession and we are all pinching pennies to survive. I am here to help! On a monthly basis, I will give YOU the opportunity to vote on which film you would like me to review, so that you don't waste your money on something that can wait for the DVD.

If you are a blogger who cannot wait for my opinion and would like to participate in Feature Film Fridays, choose the flick you will see this month, post a blog of your review by the 26th, and link it to my
Mister Linky!!! We can all help one another out.

I figured Father's Day Weekend was a perfect time to begin.

Here are your choices:

1. My Sister's Keeper (Based on the Novel) starring Cameron Diaz

2. My Life In Ruins starring Nia Vardalos (My Big Fat Greek Wedding)

3. Imagine That starring Eddie Murphy

4. Year One starring Jack Black

5. Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen starring Shia LaBeouf & Megan Fox

6. Unmistaken Child: Documentary which follows the journey of a Tibetan monk

For further info on these titles as well as trailers, please visit The Movie Insider and then come back and vote.

And the Winner is.......

2009-06-18T19:24:00.000-07:00

OK folks....... my fate has come to its culmination
according to the 20 Votes I received!

I will be terminating my life on the...................ZIPLINE!

I was so thrilled to hear about those of you that experienced the Zipline and loved it,

or those of you that have always dreamed of doing it yourselves.

It's never too late my friends. If there is a fear you want or need to conquer, TODAY IS THE DAY! I will be contacting the Zipline Experts on Monday and post the date of my final Hoorah!!!!!

And now for the Winner of the 9x13 Pan That Can Book

(carefully picked out of a box by my six year old)........

drum roll please..............

just in the nick of time with her final vote, glad she stopped by my site

last minute, yes I am speaking of, the One and Only,
The Talented Blogger...........

JENNA Z!

Congrats Jenna and I hope you enjoy this book from Better Homes & Gardens.

I appreciate all of your comments and concerns for my well being.

I look forward to the day ahead

and I hope you continue to take this journey of LIFE with me.

Have a wonderful weekend and

Happy Father's Day to all the dedicated and loving

fathers out there that are an integral part of the family.

Vote And Win A Book

2009-06-18T00:28:00.000-07:00

OK, I still need more votes fellow bloggers.

I only have 14 comments out of the 70 of you that visited yesterday.

Right now it stands at a tie between Water Rafting and The Zipline.

I need a tie breaker! Don't be shy, Leave A Comment on the 100th Blog Post at the end of this page!!!!!

After today, I will announce the winner, so check back tomorrow morning.

For all of you that took the time to vote, Thank You, and I have enjoyed visiting your blogs as well.

Good luck in the Giveaway.

One last note,
Thank You, to Mama Kat for posting a link to my blog on her Prompts yesterday. Please take the time to visit her hysterical site. She is a guaranteed chuckle for the day.

Trips & Tips For Hiking

2009-06-17T22:50:00.000-07:00

Today was a glorious day to go for a hike!
My neighbor invited me for a stroll through Mount Falcon Park,
2 Miles outside of Morrison, Colorado.
I read about the fantastic castle ruins,
once the Walker Home,and thought my kids would love it.

THE CHECKLIST

Water/Drinks

Bikes

Sneakers

Sunblock

Hats

Lunch/Snacks

Helmets

Light jackets

Wipes

Diapers

Formula

Kids

The trip started off strong.
Kate was beside herself to face forward and view the world
while holding on tight to her chirping chick,
which we brought along in case we would not
hear or see any real wildlife.

The children hopped on their bikes and rode down the 3 foot path at
raging speeds of approx. 1 1/2 Miles Per Hour.
Instantly, I lost sight of them as I began to holler amongst
the silent nature for all to take in and enjoy.

This is my neighbor Maria, who is NOT posing for this picture......

or this one............

The hike is filled with open fields of seasonal wildflowers and......buzzing bees.

This is Hope! Cute and happy girl riding my son's bike.

Hint to Parents: Do not bring bikes on trails for children under the age of 7,because sweet little girls like Hope and yourself will be carrying them back.Unless you are looking to improve on your cardio and weightlifting.

Before you knew it, we had arrived at the ruins.

The trail is fairly easy......no major inclines and breathtaking views along the way.

This is a photo of the home as it used to be.

This is how it is now.

My fireplace still doesn't look this good.

It was magnificent trying to envision the rooms and layout

of the home, based on what's left behind.

A view of the Red Rocks Amphitheater facing North.

At this point in the hike, Lance, my 3 year old discovered his first ECHO.

"Mom, I said Hiya and the clouds answered me back."

Gold mushrooms along the trail.

After the hike, we settled at a campground and had a picnic.

Kate ate Gummy Bears on a stick.

She was suckling on them until one of them disappeared.

All you Denverites and people visiting Colorado,
I would 100% recommend this hike.It's a short drive and a memorable adventure. Once you arrive at the ruins, there are various narrower and steeper trails that you can take,if you are feeling adventurous.